My boyfriend exercises every afternoon in the park. All the people around there know him and like him. A recruiter told him that a husband and wife can be in the same unit. I love him and I'm thinking if this is correct we could join at 18 after high school and be together. We would also have paid college tuition. My dad is a retired Marine and he always talks highly of his military experience. I think he would support me. My mom might not be so positive but Oh well.Is it true that married people are always stationed together if they join the army?
sassy is right about the word they will use to get you to join. unless you have it on paper. my husband went into the army and they told him things that they later backed out of. i have a cousin who is air force. her and her husband were both in the service, they were separated for only a year during a remote her husband had to take. you need to ask around if anyone knows a husband and wife that already live like that. the other issue you need to see if what fields you both want in. the field meaning specific career choice in the army can also make a different. my cousin is a military dentist, while her husband was a type of officer in a military law office. ( he has since retired.) if your boyfriend choose a combat type and you didn't that can change things too. I'm a 20 year military brat as well as a short term military wife(hubby got out from getting injured.) so think carefully, ask around to those who actually live it and think of what direction the 2 of you would even take when you join, take in mind also that certain fields may not have an opening. when you join and when you receive the base of location. good luck and study hard for graduation.
a note: ask your school ROTC captain . he or she may be able to tell you more. because many ROTC kids go into the military. ROTC also helps you rank and career wise when you join.Is it true that married people are always stationed together if they join the army?
Yes, you'll be together. I think the only time you might not be is if you're in different branches or if one of you is deployed. It's one of the reasons so many people in the millitary marry so young - you get extra income just for being married and your spouse gets to move with you. You wouldn't be able to live with him wherever he was stationed if you weren't married.
Also keep in mind that getting married at 18 might not be such a good idea. I'm not doubting that you love him, but getting married just so you can be with someone who would otherwise go away is not the best reason to take the plunge.
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Don't believe everything you hear. They tell you whatever you need to hear to get you to sign. Yeah, you'll stay together....right through boot camp.
Saturday, August 21, 2010
My menstrual cycle is for every 24 days. i recently got married and after marriage it has changed to 28days?
Is it fine if the cycle time changes? is it because of sex?My menstrual cycle is for every 24 days. i recently got married and after marriage it has changed to 28days?
Cycles change. It happens. You are lucky that your period has been so regular. Before I got on the pill, I could never tell when my period was going to come. It would come late or early. What ever it wanted to do lol.
You are fine. The physical act of sex has not affect on your period. It could just be the excitement of getting married and having sex. Excitement and stress can affect the hormones in your body which affect your cycle.
You are fine.
Cycles change. It happens. You are lucky that your period has been so regular. Before I got on the pill, I could never tell when my period was going to come. It would come late or early. What ever it wanted to do lol.
You are fine. The physical act of sex has not affect on your period. It could just be the excitement of getting married and having sex. Excitement and stress can affect the hormones in your body which affect your cycle.
You are fine.
Will bisexuals who are married ever be satisfied with the opposite sex partner only?
Or will they stray if someone of the same sex propositions them/entices them??Will bisexuals who are married ever be satisfied with the opposite sex partner only?
It's no different than a heterosexual who is married.
A bisexual meets someone, falls in love, gets married because he or she wants to make a commitment to the person they love.
A heterosexual meets someone, falls in love, gets married because he or she wants to make a commitment to the person they love.
There are temptations for either type of individual, every day of their lives. We all make choices about faithfulness or not, every day.Will bisexuals who are married ever be satisfied with the opposite sex partner only?
I myself lean both ways and never cheated with male or female when married. Just because a person is Bi doesn't mean they will cheat, only that they have a liking for both sexes.
Only a cheat does that including hetero.
I am bisexual and have been married 21 years, this Sept. 1st. When I got married, I chose to stay with my husband, and no other, male or female. If your spouse loves you, I am sure you have nothing to worry about.
If they're monogamous they won't be. If they aren't then they'll cheat. Of course, if you're concerned with bisexuals cheating on you...well...hate to break it to you but when with straight guys...there's like three billion women to entice him.
Yes. It's no different.
Bi means can be sexually satisfied by either gender not must.
Like all marriages, it depends on the individuals involved.
Anyone can be unfaithful and it depends on if the person values commitment.
they'll never be satisfied, you cant even trust your wife when she's with your sister!
no, bi sexual is just another word for gay.dermalogica
It's no different than a heterosexual who is married.
A bisexual meets someone, falls in love, gets married because he or she wants to make a commitment to the person they love.
A heterosexual meets someone, falls in love, gets married because he or she wants to make a commitment to the person they love.
There are temptations for either type of individual, every day of their lives. We all make choices about faithfulness or not, every day.Will bisexuals who are married ever be satisfied with the opposite sex partner only?
I myself lean both ways and never cheated with male or female when married. Just because a person is Bi doesn't mean they will cheat, only that they have a liking for both sexes.
Only a cheat does that including hetero.
I am bisexual and have been married 21 years, this Sept. 1st. When I got married, I chose to stay with my husband, and no other, male or female. If your spouse loves you, I am sure you have nothing to worry about.
If they're monogamous they won't be. If they aren't then they'll cheat. Of course, if you're concerned with bisexuals cheating on you...well...hate to break it to you but when with straight guys...there's like three billion women to entice him.
Yes. It's no different.
Bi means can be sexually satisfied by either gender not must.
Like all marriages, it depends on the individuals involved.
Anyone can be unfaithful and it depends on if the person values commitment.
they'll never be satisfied, you cant even trust your wife when she's with your sister!
no, bi sexual is just another word for gay.
In the Sims 2, is it possible to have a male sim the father of a child but not married to the mother?
I know that you can do it by making the two sims break up but I was wondering whether there is a way to do it in the ';Create a Family'; mode. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. :)In the Sims 2, is it possible to have a male sim the father of a child but not married to the mother?
You can also make an unmarried couple try for a baby.In the Sims 2, is it possible to have a male sim the father of a child but not married to the mother?
Yep. Create an adult male character, then create a child. Go into the relationship definer and drag the kid to the man and define as the man's child. Then, save the family. Easy peasy. :)
OK, with the added into... you can create a Dad, then a Mom, then a kid blending the DNA of the two. Go into the relationship definer and drag the kid to the dad and define the kid as dad's child. Mom will be a roomie of Dad, unless you decide to define her as his spouse. Or, you can define the kid as Mom's child and Dad will be the unmarried roomie.
Either way (strangely enough), it doesn't appear that you can define the kid as the child of both. Creating the child by mixing the DNA of the parents, you technically have the mother and father together but not married. They just won't both be defined as parents through the relationship thing.
or have mom and dad argue and break up so the mom will leave and dad has the kid(s)
Yes I have tried it before and it worked.
yes ive done it before
You can also make an unmarried couple try for a baby.In the Sims 2, is it possible to have a male sim the father of a child but not married to the mother?
Yep. Create an adult male character, then create a child. Go into the relationship definer and drag the kid to the man and define as the man's child. Then, save the family. Easy peasy. :)
OK, with the added into... you can create a Dad, then a Mom, then a kid blending the DNA of the two. Go into the relationship definer and drag the kid to the dad and define the kid as dad's child. Mom will be a roomie of Dad, unless you decide to define her as his spouse. Or, you can define the kid as Mom's child and Dad will be the unmarried roomie.
Either way (strangely enough), it doesn't appear that you can define the kid as the child of both. Creating the child by mixing the DNA of the parents, you technically have the mother and father together but not married. They just won't both be defined as parents through the relationship thing.
or have mom and dad argue and break up so the mom will leave and dad has the kid(s)
Yes I have tried it before and it worked.
yes ive done it before
Atheist: Would you get married in a church if your loved one wanted you to?
If your fiance asked you to get married the church of his religion, would you? Do you feel it'd be disrespectful for you to be in the church and didn't believe?
I was asked yesterday and the reason why I don't go to church is because I think it'd disrespectful, but I don't know what I'd do if I was in that situation.
Atheist: Would you get married in a church if your loved one wanted you to?
No I wouldn't even date someone who wanted to get married in a Church, let alone a theist. Atheist: Would you get married in a church if your loved one wanted you to?
I guess I can't see it getting that far in the first place. If you plan to have kids, you should discuss if they will be raised in her religion. If you can agree that they will then you might as well get married in the church. If you haven't discussed kids, don't get married until you do.
I'm an atheist and I have no problem going into a church. It's just another building. As for being respectful, I might ask that I not be asked to pray, because I don't believe anybody is hearing it. But I wouldn't have a problem. When my wife and I got married the man who did the wedding said a prayer and we listened politely. No biggie.
I would think at least twice before falling in love with someone whose views were such that she wanted to be married in a church.
When my wife and I got married 49 years ago, her parents pressured us to get married in a church but we would not do it. We were married in their home by a New York Supreme Court judge.
It seems to have worked pretty well.
I love churches, the love and craftsmanship that goes into their construction. I'd be willing to be married in a church, but I won't be responsible for repairing the flaming footsteps I leave behind.
Would not be my prime choice, but out of respect for him, or more than likely his family, sure. If the church would find it disrespectful, that's on them, my commitments would be based on the man, not the church's religion.
Yes, I would do that, and I will be, in a couple of years.
Well it's not exactly disrespectful because there's not a God to disrespect.
ive never been in that situation.
i dont think i would get married in a church, it scraps the reason of atheism.
yes, I would. Respect your partners beliefs, even if you dont agree with them. Religion is not a subject I would ever let complicate my life/relationships.
My wife wanted us to get married in the church, but the priest refused because he lost out in a debate against me and barred me from the church :P.
I would never marry someone who has such differing religious views as my own, it causes problems with raising children.
i wouldnt participate in any of the rituals but i wouldn't have a problem being married in a church its just a building
I would if she wanted us to. I don't think it'd disrespectful at all because after all, the bride or groom would at least be a believer.
Sure, I suppose, but as a compromise I would insist that the wedding still be conducted by a justice of the law.
No, she wants to get married in a synagogue or a place where the service will be Jewish.
Yes, if she wanted to. However, my wife is an atheist as well. There is no reason she would want that.
I would anyways. It's a beautiful setting. I don't see why not.
As long as she (if I ever have a wife that was religious) can make an agreement that I choose the reception.
nope, cause I wouldn't be engaged to another man, I don't bend that way
The Answer is easy HELL NO
I am not moving back to my mommas house because some ***** was not satisfied with me.
Why not? I don't think it woul be disrespectful as long as the church knew I wasn't of their religion.
Nahhh.
I would like to get a civil union with my perfect girl if I ever find her
Sure, why not?
I'm respectful of all religions. As long as my sweetie didn't have a problem with it, neither would I.
depends on how smexy they are %26gt;:3
no.
no I would never
All ATHIESTS ARE GOING TO HELL!!!
I was asked yesterday and the reason why I don't go to church is because I think it'd disrespectful, but I don't know what I'd do if I was in that situation.
Atheist: Would you get married in a church if your loved one wanted you to?
No I wouldn't even date someone who wanted to get married in a Church, let alone a theist. Atheist: Would you get married in a church if your loved one wanted you to?
I guess I can't see it getting that far in the first place. If you plan to have kids, you should discuss if they will be raised in her religion. If you can agree that they will then you might as well get married in the church. If you haven't discussed kids, don't get married until you do.
I'm an atheist and I have no problem going into a church. It's just another building. As for being respectful, I might ask that I not be asked to pray, because I don't believe anybody is hearing it. But I wouldn't have a problem. When my wife and I got married the man who did the wedding said a prayer and we listened politely. No biggie.
I would think at least twice before falling in love with someone whose views were such that she wanted to be married in a church.
When my wife and I got married 49 years ago, her parents pressured us to get married in a church but we would not do it. We were married in their home by a New York Supreme Court judge.
It seems to have worked pretty well.
I love churches, the love and craftsmanship that goes into their construction. I'd be willing to be married in a church, but I won't be responsible for repairing the flaming footsteps I leave behind.
Would not be my prime choice, but out of respect for him, or more than likely his family, sure. If the church would find it disrespectful, that's on them, my commitments would be based on the man, not the church's religion.
Yes, I would do that, and I will be, in a couple of years.
Well it's not exactly disrespectful because there's not a God to disrespect.
ive never been in that situation.
i dont think i would get married in a church, it scraps the reason of atheism.
yes, I would. Respect your partners beliefs, even if you dont agree with them. Religion is not a subject I would ever let complicate my life/relationships.
My wife wanted us to get married in the church, but the priest refused because he lost out in a debate against me and barred me from the church :P.
I would never marry someone who has such differing religious views as my own, it causes problems with raising children.
i wouldnt participate in any of the rituals but i wouldn't have a problem being married in a church its just a building
I would if she wanted us to. I don't think it'd disrespectful at all because after all, the bride or groom would at least be a believer.
Sure, I suppose, but as a compromise I would insist that the wedding still be conducted by a justice of the law.
No, she wants to get married in a synagogue or a place where the service will be Jewish.
Yes, if she wanted to. However, my wife is an atheist as well. There is no reason she would want that.
I would anyways. It's a beautiful setting. I don't see why not.
As long as she (if I ever have a wife that was religious) can make an agreement that I choose the reception.
nope, cause I wouldn't be engaged to another man, I don't bend that way
The Answer is easy HELL NO
I am not moving back to my mommas house because some ***** was not satisfied with me.
Why not? I don't think it woul be disrespectful as long as the church knew I wasn't of their religion.
Nahhh.
I would like to get a civil union with my perfect girl if I ever find her
Sure, why not?
I'm respectful of all religions. As long as my sweetie didn't have a problem with it, neither would I.
depends on how smexy they are %26gt;:3
no.
no I would never
All ATHIESTS ARE GOING TO HELL!!!
How to propose a married to my girlfriend in online relationship?
Is it possible or it works?How to propose a married to my girlfriend in online relationship?
Propose in person for goodness sakeHow to propose a married to my girlfriend in online relationship?
This is not a good idea. You need to at least meet someone before you want to marry them. An online relationship can be very nice but you do not know that person. People can post anything and present themselves in any manner. They have pleanty of time to work out an answer to any question and you cannot even look in their face to judge if it is the truth. You have no ide how you two will get along you cannot even be certain of what she looks like. Save the proposals for people you know in the real world not cyberspace
Well it's always best to propose in person but if you can't. Let her know you are sending her a package (the ring) and tell her to let you know when she gets it and not to open it. Then when she gets it and tells you, you can either ask her then have her open the package or vice versa.
Have you ever met the girl? If not why would you propose to someone you never saw in person? What kind of relationship would it be to be engaged with a 15hr flight time distance from one another?
Find someone near you or try to move to the US if you want to be in a real relationship
Meet her in person first and get to know her - for all you know, she could be a 60 year old, 400 pound mean troll, or even worse, a man!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Edit - How do you know it's her behind the camera??? She could have a hot friend??? Watch the movie The Truth About Cats and Dogs!!!!!!!
yea that's terrible... see her in person to do it..
unless it's a virtual relationship?? then i guess you can send her virtual roses and a virtual ring and propose
Don't be so stupid meet her for goodness sake. You can't marry someone if you've never met someone. Its not real is it. What if you meet her in real life and don't like her?
Wow. That's WONDERFUL! A wonderfully bad idea. How do you do it, you ask? You don't.
thats no good should definatley be face to face unless you have never met in which case dont propse x
Well, you're gonna need a cyber ring.
uhh, dont do that.
Propose in person for goodness sakeHow to propose a married to my girlfriend in online relationship?
This is not a good idea. You need to at least meet someone before you want to marry them. An online relationship can be very nice but you do not know that person. People can post anything and present themselves in any manner. They have pleanty of time to work out an answer to any question and you cannot even look in their face to judge if it is the truth. You have no ide how you two will get along you cannot even be certain of what she looks like. Save the proposals for people you know in the real world not cyberspace
Well it's always best to propose in person but if you can't. Let her know you are sending her a package (the ring) and tell her to let you know when she gets it and not to open it. Then when she gets it and tells you, you can either ask her then have her open the package or vice versa.
Have you ever met the girl? If not why would you propose to someone you never saw in person? What kind of relationship would it be to be engaged with a 15hr flight time distance from one another?
Find someone near you or try to move to the US if you want to be in a real relationship
Meet her in person first and get to know her - for all you know, she could be a 60 year old, 400 pound mean troll, or even worse, a man!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Edit - How do you know it's her behind the camera??? She could have a hot friend??? Watch the movie The Truth About Cats and Dogs!!!!!!!
yea that's terrible... see her in person to do it..
unless it's a virtual relationship?? then i guess you can send her virtual roses and a virtual ring and propose
Don't be so stupid meet her for goodness sake. You can't marry someone if you've never met someone. Its not real is it. What if you meet her in real life and don't like her?
Wow. That's WONDERFUL! A wonderfully bad idea. How do you do it, you ask? You don't.
thats no good should definatley be face to face unless you have never met in which case dont propse x
Well, you're gonna need a cyber ring.
uhh, dont do that.
If not married and doing masturbation is it a sin?
Is masturbation have smthn to do with religions ? How to get sexual satisfaction for unmarried people without sinning to go...is there anyway else ?If not married and doing masturbation is it a sin?
being a muslim, i think it is. dont you think masturbation is going to encourage you to the real thing? i really cant suggest alternatives, so... why dont you go for expert advice....which u will definitely ';NOT'; find here on R%26amp;S. try www.islamonline.net or www.minhaj.orgIf not married and doing masturbation is it a sin?
Dear Gwamam,
You have a conscience. What is it telling you?
Many people will justify it and rationalize it, but these people are the same people who resent any authority(religious or otherwise) telling them how to live their life.
.
One way to avoid sin is to stay away from the occasions of sin that lead us to sin.
Try to avoid the occasion of masturbation. (the people, places, and things that set us up for it).
.
One of the reasons why I believe it is wrong
is not because it is pleasurable (true, it is),
but because it keeps us from meeting other people and getting involved in a world other than our own.
.
Maybe you need to listen to the plight of the suffering in your community, get involved in community service, or active in a church group or ministry to the suffering.
Maybe we also need to ';re-define'; what happiness is. How pleasure only takes us so far, but REAL JOY and happiness (which comes at a greater price) far exceeds pleasure.
Don't be discouraged in your good efforts to be pure.
Hope this helps.
Love %26amp; Prayers,
Jim
Yes, its a sin. You are supposed to control your urges and not seek sexual satisfaction. Christian monks used to beat themselves with withy-sticks when they had sexual thoughts. Pain is supposed to distract you from them!
Lust is after all one of the seven deadly sins!
But seriously. Its not a major sin. Not on the scale of murder or anything. Greed, envy and gluttony (know any fat people?) are also sins, and most people fall for these.
No, it's not a sin. It's a normal part of human nature, for both men and women. Religion wants everyone to be ashamed of being human. Religion needs to grow up and mind its own business. If you're ashamed of masturbating, don't tell anyone you're doing it.
Dude don't listen to religions about masturbation. It is not a sin. How are you gonna go through life without feeling good and not doing things to satisfy religion. Don't let something tell you how to live. Masturbate!
Masturbation is fine..
People try to use commit adultery commandment as contrary, by saying just by thinking about tappin that ***, you literally are, therefore sinning..
Nah man, whack it all you want
When has religion ever been right? Never, so just ignore it, lots of religious people probably do it anyway, so if it makes you feel any better you can imagine your the pope.
No, masturbation is not a sin. The passage often portrayed as anti-masturbation is actually about coitus interruptus (';pulling out'; before ejaculation to prevent pregnancy).
I don't care if you do it ... just quit telling ME you do! I don't want to know about ANYBODY diddling themselves! TMI !!!
If you keep playing with it it will drop right off and where will you be then another virgin.
Heck, I'm masturbating right now while I'm listening to christian music
You can have sex with altar boys
I dont thing it's a sin but it's better to stay away from it.
If it is, you're doing it wrong. Try switching hands.
You go to hell just for asking.
you'll go blind!
being a muslim, i think it is. dont you think masturbation is going to encourage you to the real thing? i really cant suggest alternatives, so... why dont you go for expert advice....which u will definitely ';NOT'; find here on R%26amp;S. try www.islamonline.net or www.minhaj.orgIf not married and doing masturbation is it a sin?
Dear Gwamam,
You have a conscience. What is it telling you?
Many people will justify it and rationalize it, but these people are the same people who resent any authority(religious or otherwise) telling them how to live their life.
.
One way to avoid sin is to stay away from the occasions of sin that lead us to sin.
Try to avoid the occasion of masturbation. (the people, places, and things that set us up for it).
.
One of the reasons why I believe it is wrong
is not because it is pleasurable (true, it is),
but because it keeps us from meeting other people and getting involved in a world other than our own.
.
Maybe you need to listen to the plight of the suffering in your community, get involved in community service, or active in a church group or ministry to the suffering.
Maybe we also need to ';re-define'; what happiness is. How pleasure only takes us so far, but REAL JOY and happiness (which comes at a greater price) far exceeds pleasure.
Don't be discouraged in your good efforts to be pure.
Hope this helps.
Love %26amp; Prayers,
Jim
Yes, its a sin. You are supposed to control your urges and not seek sexual satisfaction. Christian monks used to beat themselves with withy-sticks when they had sexual thoughts. Pain is supposed to distract you from them!
Lust is after all one of the seven deadly sins!
But seriously. Its not a major sin. Not on the scale of murder or anything. Greed, envy and gluttony (know any fat people?) are also sins, and most people fall for these.
No, it's not a sin. It's a normal part of human nature, for both men and women. Religion wants everyone to be ashamed of being human. Religion needs to grow up and mind its own business. If you're ashamed of masturbating, don't tell anyone you're doing it.
Dude don't listen to religions about masturbation. It is not a sin. How are you gonna go through life without feeling good and not doing things to satisfy religion. Don't let something tell you how to live. Masturbate!
Masturbation is fine..
People try to use commit adultery commandment as contrary, by saying just by thinking about tappin that ***, you literally are, therefore sinning..
Nah man, whack it all you want
When has religion ever been right? Never, so just ignore it, lots of religious people probably do it anyway, so if it makes you feel any better you can imagine your the pope.
No, masturbation is not a sin. The passage often portrayed as anti-masturbation is actually about coitus interruptus (';pulling out'; before ejaculation to prevent pregnancy).
I don't care if you do it ... just quit telling ME you do! I don't want to know about ANYBODY diddling themselves! TMI !!!
If you keep playing with it it will drop right off and where will you be then another virgin.
Heck, I'm masturbating right now while I'm listening to christian music
You can have sex with altar boys
I dont thing it's a sin but it's better to stay away from it.
If it is, you're doing it wrong. Try switching hands.
You go to hell just for asking.
you'll go blind!
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