This question is for people who didn't have children before the marriage. How long after getting married did you start ttc and what effected the time it took?
I started ttc the day I got married lol, and when I get asked and I tell them, they say things like ';oh i'd never do that';. But i was with my partner for a loonggg time before and we both really wanted children.
xHow long after getting married did you start TTC?
Well, when we first got married I was like you, hubby used to call me BOB, for Baby on the Brain! But he wasn't ready yet. Then he was ready a few years later, and I wasn't, my career was going really well and didn't really feel the urge anymore (my sis had a baby so when I needed a baby fix I would visit my niece, plus I also saw how much work a baby was!).
So, it was a little over 7 years of marriage that we started TTC#1..it only took two months and 9 mos later our little baby girl arrived in Oct. 07. We are in the process of TTC#2 now, it is taking longer than we thought though.
best wishes and it is never too early for a baby, both Hubby %26amp; I wish that we had started our family earlier!How long after getting married did you start TTC?
i started having unprotected sex the day i got married, but i didn't start actively ttc until after a year and a half of being married. i had to use a clearblue fertility monitor once we started trying because i was so wrong on my ovulation dates. there is nothing wrong with ttc the day you get married. there are teenagers getting pregnant every day with no stability. i don't know why people would tell you they would never do that. who cares what people say anyway. you are married.
We threw out the birth control and started trying one year after we were married. We have been TTC for a little over a year now, with no luck, but we are still hoping.
I wouldn't have changed anything b/c we were together several years before we were married and we were both ready.
I got pregnant the second cycle after I was married. I LOVE my son to death but I understand why it may have been nice to have a few years of married life without children. That said, I would NOT change it now, my son is far greater than travelling and partying!
I have been with my hubby for 5 years, married for 3. We started trying 13 months ago and I have just fallen pregnant.
Nothing wrong with trying now!
Good luck! x
Dh and I started about a month after we got married and still ttc a year later.. I feel as if you have been w/ your partner for awhile then what's the use of waiting any longer? Good Luck.
We started immediately, we knew we wanted kids young, and would be able to support them. It took two weeks, haha.
We got married 6 months ago and we just started TTC. It doesn't matter what people say. All that matters is what you and your spouse want.
Five years after we got married. We have been together for 11 years and I am now 14 weeks pregnant. Happened on the first attempt.
We tried about 6 months after we got married,and now I'm being induced tonight at midnight!
We started on the honeymoon.
After 2 1/2 to 3 years of marriage. It took us 2 years!
almost 7 years...
Saturday, July 31, 2010
How do you get married on the sims 3?
I have these two sims and they are on ';romantic interest'; how do i get them engaged and married!?!?How do you get married on the sims 3?
Yea do the romantic options until it says, propose to go steady
then you do that
then ask to marry
and then have private wedding and you get married right there and thenHow do you get married on the sims 3?
first you have to get them become best friends...then lovers and then after they kiss...hug...and the rest for about 5-6 times you will get the option to get engaged :) and then you may ask the other sim to move in with you
The options will be on the ';romance'; menu once their relationship is good enough.
Yea do the romantic options until it says, propose to go steady
then you do that
then ask to marry
and then have private wedding and you get married right there and thenHow do you get married on the sims 3?
first you have to get them become best friends...then lovers and then after they kiss...hug...and the rest for about 5-6 times you will get the option to get engaged :) and then you may ask the other sim to move in with you
The options will be on the ';romance'; menu once their relationship is good enough.
Is any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
I DON'T mean cheating. what I mean is someone who does this only for fun and still loves her husband.
answer this only if you are such a person or know such a person and tell all the details.Is any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
Weird questionIs any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
Any man other than my husband that touches my breasts or butt is asking for a broken wrist. And that's before I tell my husband what happened.
But the woman I know who's kissing a man other than her husband is, in fact, cheating. I don't care how she justifies it to herself.
Yes because so many people think kissing a married woman's breasts and @ss isn't cheating (rolls eyes).
Another 8th grader out of school for the summer using mommy's computer to troll for jerk-off material.
I don't see anything wrong with it. I do it, and I love it. I would not mind if my SO was doing it, I think it's a turn on.
If both the husband and the wife are ok with another man doing this....then fine. But if either is not comfortable, or if it is done without the husbands knowledge...it IS cheating.
i have seen my sister in law do this right in front of my brother.
it was uncomfortable for me to watch.
answer this only if you are such a person or know such a person and tell all the details.Is any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
Weird questionIs any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
Any man other than my husband that touches my breasts or butt is asking for a broken wrist. And that's before I tell my husband what happened.
But the woman I know who's kissing a man other than her husband is, in fact, cheating. I don't care how she justifies it to herself.
Yes because so many people think kissing a married woman's breasts and @ss isn't cheating (rolls eyes).
Another 8th grader out of school for the summer using mommy's computer to troll for jerk-off material.
I don't see anything wrong with it. I do it, and I love it. I would not mind if my SO was doing it, I think it's a turn on.
If both the husband and the wife are ok with another man doing this....then fine. But if either is not comfortable, or if it is done without the husbands knowledge...it IS cheating.
i have seen my sister in law do this right in front of my brother.
it was uncomfortable for me to watch.
Are there stipulations for married couples filing separate tax returns?
1. Your tax rate generally will be higher than it would be on a joint return.
2. Your exemption amount for figuring the alternative minimum tax will be half that allowed to a joint return filer.
3. You cannot take the credit for child and dependent care expenses in most cases, and the amount that you can exclude from income under an employer's dependent care assistance program is limited to $2,500 (instead of $5,000 if you filed a joint return).
4. You cannot take the earned income credit.
5. You cannot take the exclusion or credit for adoption expenses in most cases.
6. You cannot take the education credits (the Hope credit and the lifetime learning credit), or the deduction for student loan interest.
7. You cannot exclude any interest income from qualified U.S. savings bonds that you used for higher education expenses.
8. If you lived with your spouse at any time during the tax year:
a. You cannot claim the credit for the elderly or the disabled.
b. You will have to include in income more (up to 85%) of any social security or equivalent railroad retirement benefits you received, and
c. You cannot roll over amounts from a traditional IRA into a Roth IRA.
9. The following deductions and credits are reduced at income levels that are half those for a joint return:
a. The child tax credit,
b. The retirement savings contributions credit,
c. Itemized deductions, and
d. The deduction for personal exemptions.
10. Your capital loss deduction limit is $1,500 (instead of $3,000 if you filed a joint return).
11. If your spouse itemizes deductions, you cannot claim the standard deduction. If you can claim the standard deduction, your basic standard deduction is half the amount allowed on a joint return.Are there stipulations for married couples filing separate tax returns?
';Married Filing Separately'; is the least desirable filing status to use. Try it both ways and you will see for yourself. Married Filing Jointly will be your best situation.Are there stipulations for married couples filing separate tax returns?
If you are married, it's your choice whether you file a joint return or file as married filing separately. There are a number of credits you can't take on a MFS return, and if one spouse itemizes, the other can't take a standard deduction - must either itemize, or show zero for deductions.
Filing jointly is an option. If you have children it will cost you $1,000 each if you don't file jointly.
2. Your exemption amount for figuring the alternative minimum tax will be half that allowed to a joint return filer.
3. You cannot take the credit for child and dependent care expenses in most cases, and the amount that you can exclude from income under an employer's dependent care assistance program is limited to $2,500 (instead of $5,000 if you filed a joint return).
4. You cannot take the earned income credit.
5. You cannot take the exclusion or credit for adoption expenses in most cases.
6. You cannot take the education credits (the Hope credit and the lifetime learning credit), or the deduction for student loan interest.
7. You cannot exclude any interest income from qualified U.S. savings bonds that you used for higher education expenses.
8. If you lived with your spouse at any time during the tax year:
a. You cannot claim the credit for the elderly or the disabled.
b. You will have to include in income more (up to 85%) of any social security or equivalent railroad retirement benefits you received, and
c. You cannot roll over amounts from a traditional IRA into a Roth IRA.
9. The following deductions and credits are reduced at income levels that are half those for a joint return:
a. The child tax credit,
b. The retirement savings contributions credit,
c. Itemized deductions, and
d. The deduction for personal exemptions.
10. Your capital loss deduction limit is $1,500 (instead of $3,000 if you filed a joint return).
11. If your spouse itemizes deductions, you cannot claim the standard deduction. If you can claim the standard deduction, your basic standard deduction is half the amount allowed on a joint return.Are there stipulations for married couples filing separate tax returns?
';Married Filing Separately'; is the least desirable filing status to use. Try it both ways and you will see for yourself. Married Filing Jointly will be your best situation.Are there stipulations for married couples filing separate tax returns?
If you are married, it's your choice whether you file a joint return or file as married filing separately. There are a number of credits you can't take on a MFS return, and if one spouse itemizes, the other can't take a standard deduction - must either itemize, or show zero for deductions.
Filing jointly is an option. If you have children it will cost you $1,000 each if you don't file jointly.
How do you get married without a ceremony?
How do you get a marriage license without a ceremony? What are the requirements and how long the process takes?How do you get married without a ceremony?
Go to or call your county building, say we want to get married to someone, they'll direct you to the correct place (make sure you have your birth certificate and social security cards). They will give you a marriage license (cost money) usually there is atleast a 24hr. waiting period before you can use the license and if you ask, I am sure they can tell you a list of people with the authority to wed y'all...tell them you want a short, simple, and private ceremony (which usually only last about 10-15 min.'s then all you need is 2 witnesses.How do you get married without a ceremony?
Take a trip to the justice of peace and have a small civil ceremony (its very routine for them), have a wittness for each and sign the marriage license.
Vegas baby only one day';s work and like $50
court marriage
Go to your local Clerk of Courts office. Not all places have a Justice of the Peace. Some have magistrates or retired judges that can perform the ceremony. A minister, pastor, priest or rabbi can also marry you without all the pagaentry of a large cermony. Some place require you to wait for 36 hours from the time you apply for the marriage license, some are backed up weeks in advance. You have to be at least the age of majority in your state, have your birth certificate and a form of picture i.d. like driver's license or state i.d. Most states require a blood test also.
Go to your local clerk of courts...they will be able to tell you exactly how long of a wait time there is and how much it will cost...you can order your marriage licence and get married by the JOP...I know you both have to be there and have SS Cards anf Photo IDs with you in order for them to order your marriage licence
Good Luck
You want a fast weeding, with no ceremony, go to Las Vegas. It's fast, easy, and then enjoy you honeymoon.
It depends on where you live. Some states have no waiting periods, so you can get married the same day you go in to get your license. The website I list below gives you exact requirements by state.
Good Luck.
Your local Clerk of Court's office can tell you where to get a marriage license or your Register of Deeds office. If you do not want a church wedding or wedding chapel like in Las Vegas, a Justice of the Peace or Magistrate can normally marry you in their office. Call their office and inquire.
Go to or call your county building, say we want to get married to someone, they'll direct you to the correct place (make sure you have your birth certificate and social security cards). They will give you a marriage license (cost money) usually there is atleast a 24hr. waiting period before you can use the license and if you ask, I am sure they can tell you a list of people with the authority to wed y'all...tell them you want a short, simple, and private ceremony (which usually only last about 10-15 min.'s then all you need is 2 witnesses.How do you get married without a ceremony?
Take a trip to the justice of peace and have a small civil ceremony (its very routine for them), have a wittness for each and sign the marriage license.
Vegas baby only one day';s work and like $50
court marriage
Go to your local Clerk of Courts office. Not all places have a Justice of the Peace. Some have magistrates or retired judges that can perform the ceremony. A minister, pastor, priest or rabbi can also marry you without all the pagaentry of a large cermony. Some place require you to wait for 36 hours from the time you apply for the marriage license, some are backed up weeks in advance. You have to be at least the age of majority in your state, have your birth certificate and a form of picture i.d. like driver's license or state i.d. Most states require a blood test also.
Go to your local clerk of courts...they will be able to tell you exactly how long of a wait time there is and how much it will cost...you can order your marriage licence and get married by the JOP...I know you both have to be there and have SS Cards anf Photo IDs with you in order for them to order your marriage licence
Good Luck
You want a fast weeding, with no ceremony, go to Las Vegas. It's fast, easy, and then enjoy you honeymoon.
It depends on where you live. Some states have no waiting periods, so you can get married the same day you go in to get your license. The website I list below gives you exact requirements by state.
Good Luck.
Your local Clerk of Court's office can tell you where to get a marriage license or your Register of Deeds office. If you do not want a church wedding or wedding chapel like in Las Vegas, a Justice of the Peace or Magistrate can normally marry you in their office. Call their office and inquire.
Was Philip K Dick married to a black haired woman?
Do you happen to know that?Was Philip K Dick married to a black haired woman?
This is a strange question. Philip K. Dick got married a lot, but we don't even know who he may have been with who he didn't marry. It seems probable that even during his short life he was, at some time, with a black-haired woman. I believe he not only wrote fast, he lived fast.
Why?Was Philip K Dick married to a black haired woman?
Dick married five times, and had two daughters and a son; each marriage ended in divorce.
May 1948, to Jeanette Marlin (lasted six months)
June 1950, to Kleo Apostolides (divorced 1959)
1959, to Anne Williams Rubinstein (child: Laura Archer, born February 25, 1960) (divorced 1964)
1966, to Nancy Hackett (child: Isolde, ';Isa';) (divorced 1972)
April 18, 1973, to Leslie (Tessa) Busby (child: Christopher) (divorced 1977)
Sorry, haven't got time to try and look up hair colours, but I think there's a good chance one of them had dark hair.dermalogica
This is a strange question. Philip K. Dick got married a lot, but we don't even know who he may have been with who he didn't marry. It seems probable that even during his short life he was, at some time, with a black-haired woman. I believe he not only wrote fast, he lived fast.
Why?Was Philip K Dick married to a black haired woman?
Dick married five times, and had two daughters and a son; each marriage ended in divorce.
May 1948, to Jeanette Marlin (lasted six months)
June 1950, to Kleo Apostolides (divorced 1959)
1959, to Anne Williams Rubinstein (child: Laura Archer, born February 25, 1960) (divorced 1964)
1966, to Nancy Hackett (child: Isolde, ';Isa';) (divorced 1972)
April 18, 1973, to Leslie (Tessa) Busby (child: Christopher) (divorced 1977)
Sorry, haven't got time to try and look up hair colours, but I think there's a good chance one of them had dark hair.
What is the longest you would stay with someone without getting married?
If you were with someone and you loved them and they loved you and they said they wanted to get married and were planning on it, but kept holding back- how long would you stay with that person before moving on? I'm just curious. I know every situation is different, but a rough estimate will do. Thank youWhat is the longest you would stay with someone without getting married?
Depends on my age. Anywhere between ages 29-37 I would wait a maximum of 2 years.What is the longest you would stay with someone without getting married?
It really depends on how important marriage is to you. Is getting married going to change your relationship? Having children, buying a house together, things like that??? There are a lot of people out there that stay together and don't ever get married. My friend dated her husband for 13 years before they got married. I don't think there is a time limit to dating someone. Think about why it is so important to you to get married. If your relationship is good, go with the flow....marriage will come when its supposed to. The old saying, don't try and fix something that isn't broke.
I've been married for over two years and I can honestly say that marriage is not easy. I rushed into it and neither me nor my husband were ready. He still has a lot of issues with being married. He's immature and has no feelings towards anything. He wasn't that way at first, so you should really be careful about getting to know the person before thinking about marriage. If I were divorced now, it would be at least three maybe four years or even more before I thought about getting married again. It is very hard work and you have to want the same things in life.
It depends, on what really going on in our lives and if every thing is good and he just keep making excuses i would stay about three years that enough time for any one to get to know the basic of each other life.
The longest I would stay unmarried would be... Around 5 years.
5 yrs...if they dont marry by then they won't.
Depends on my age. Anywhere between ages 29-37 I would wait a maximum of 2 years.What is the longest you would stay with someone without getting married?
It really depends on how important marriage is to you. Is getting married going to change your relationship? Having children, buying a house together, things like that??? There are a lot of people out there that stay together and don't ever get married. My friend dated her husband for 13 years before they got married. I don't think there is a time limit to dating someone. Think about why it is so important to you to get married. If your relationship is good, go with the flow....marriage will come when its supposed to. The old saying, don't try and fix something that isn't broke.
I've been married for over two years and I can honestly say that marriage is not easy. I rushed into it and neither me nor my husband were ready. He still has a lot of issues with being married. He's immature and has no feelings towards anything. He wasn't that way at first, so you should really be careful about getting to know the person before thinking about marriage. If I were divorced now, it would be at least three maybe four years or even more before I thought about getting married again. It is very hard work and you have to want the same things in life.
It depends, on what really going on in our lives and if every thing is good and he just keep making excuses i would stay about three years that enough time for any one to get to know the basic of each other life.
The longest I would stay unmarried would be... Around 5 years.
5 yrs...if they dont marry by then they won't.
How do I convince my bf to get married? I want to have kids but wait till I am married.?
We have been together for 4 years now. Lived together for 1 and he just keeps saying he wants to but not yet and I think he just says he wants to so i will quit talking about it because every time we do we fightHow do I convince my bf to get married? I want to have kids but wait till I am married.?
Wait for HIM to get down on one leg and open the little black velvet box.How do I convince my bf to get married? I want to have kids but wait till I am married.?
It's simple. Tell him what you want. Don't wait around for NO man darling. If loves you %26amp; wants to marry you like he says, then he should have problem putting a ring on that finger of yours. He doesn't really sound like he wants to. 4 years is plenty enough time for him to figure out exactly where he wants your relationhip to go. Tell him what you want %26amp; tell him that if he can't give that to you then he needs to be honest with you %26amp; let you know so YOU can make a decision as far as whether you want to stay with him just hoping one day he will want to marry you, or whether you want to move on %26amp; find someone that wants the same things that you do. There are plenty of men out there. Plenty that want to get married %26amp; have a family just as you do. So go talk to him %26amp; make a decision from what happens with that conversation. I've had this very same conversation my my now fiancee. Told him that I was ready for marriage %26amp; if he's not then he needs to let me know so I don't waste no more time. In a matter of a couple months he had a ring on my finger %26amp; we are getting married in 9 months. You just have to put your foot down %26amp; let him know exactly what you want %26amp; don't accept less. Don't settle. Move on if you have to. Good luck
well if every time you want to talk to him about it, and it ends up as a fight. that should show you he does not want to get married. or there would never been any type of fight over such a thing as this. it seems as if he does not want to give you a straight answer, so he puts you off by saying not yet. that is the easy way out of the situation. sorry' but true.
How old are you guys? If your both in your 30's then I can understand the argument for urgency. If your in your mid to late 20's then there's always time. If your in your young 20's or late teens, if he's not ready... leave it alone for a while. If you can't wait, then maybe he's not who you should be with.
The living together was the deal breaker...No need for him to marry you now; you already stated by your action that you have no problem living together without the benefit of marriage. Good Luck....because if you have to keep asking a man to marry you, he really doesn't want to.
I've been with my fiance for four years and our wedding is all he talks about. ';Not ready'; seems to be just an easy way of telling you he doesn't want to marry you. If you have to convince him, obviously he's not the right one.
He should be chasing you into it, not the other way around. Does he ever wonder about losing you? He may have to..to come to his senses. Otherwise, you are wasting your years. But you already know that. Do not have children with him. You will regret it.
Never convince someone to get married.
I suggest moving out and ending the relationship, but what ever you do, do not return to this guy even if he should propose in an attempt to get you back.
You need to face reality. He does not want to marry you. Now or ever. So you have two choices: Either continue living with him and forget about marriage, or break things off with him and find someone who shares your goals in life, i.e. marriage and family.
Why go out of his way for a little milk when he's already got the whole cow?
On the same logic, why marry the pig for a little sausage?
You go girl, keep him in your radar but cast around for better prospective.
How old are you? If you are under 21, then he's right to hold off. If you are in your late 20s, then he is just telling you that to keep his options open for something better to come along.
If a man hasnt put a ring on your finger after 4 years its most likely he wont. Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free. Sorry girl.
Maybe he wants to have all his ';ducks in a row'; you know finances and all.
Wait for HIM to get down on one leg and open the little black velvet box.How do I convince my bf to get married? I want to have kids but wait till I am married.?
It's simple. Tell him what you want. Don't wait around for NO man darling. If loves you %26amp; wants to marry you like he says, then he should have problem putting a ring on that finger of yours. He doesn't really sound like he wants to. 4 years is plenty enough time for him to figure out exactly where he wants your relationhip to go. Tell him what you want %26amp; tell him that if he can't give that to you then he needs to be honest with you %26amp; let you know so YOU can make a decision as far as whether you want to stay with him just hoping one day he will want to marry you, or whether you want to move on %26amp; find someone that wants the same things that you do. There are plenty of men out there. Plenty that want to get married %26amp; have a family just as you do. So go talk to him %26amp; make a decision from what happens with that conversation. I've had this very same conversation my my now fiancee. Told him that I was ready for marriage %26amp; if he's not then he needs to let me know so I don't waste no more time. In a matter of a couple months he had a ring on my finger %26amp; we are getting married in 9 months. You just have to put your foot down %26amp; let him know exactly what you want %26amp; don't accept less. Don't settle. Move on if you have to. Good luck
well if every time you want to talk to him about it, and it ends up as a fight. that should show you he does not want to get married. or there would never been any type of fight over such a thing as this. it seems as if he does not want to give you a straight answer, so he puts you off by saying not yet. that is the easy way out of the situation. sorry' but true.
How old are you guys? If your both in your 30's then I can understand the argument for urgency. If your in your mid to late 20's then there's always time. If your in your young 20's or late teens, if he's not ready... leave it alone for a while. If you can't wait, then maybe he's not who you should be with.
The living together was the deal breaker...No need for him to marry you now; you already stated by your action that you have no problem living together without the benefit of marriage. Good Luck....because if you have to keep asking a man to marry you, he really doesn't want to.
I've been with my fiance for four years and our wedding is all he talks about. ';Not ready'; seems to be just an easy way of telling you he doesn't want to marry you. If you have to convince him, obviously he's not the right one.
He should be chasing you into it, not the other way around. Does he ever wonder about losing you? He may have to..to come to his senses. Otherwise, you are wasting your years. But you already know that. Do not have children with him. You will regret it.
Never convince someone to get married.
I suggest moving out and ending the relationship, but what ever you do, do not return to this guy even if he should propose in an attempt to get you back.
You need to face reality. He does not want to marry you. Now or ever. So you have two choices: Either continue living with him and forget about marriage, or break things off with him and find someone who shares your goals in life, i.e. marriage and family.
Why go out of his way for a little milk when he's already got the whole cow?
On the same logic, why marry the pig for a little sausage?
You go girl, keep him in your radar but cast around for better prospective.
How old are you? If you are under 21, then he's right to hold off. If you are in your late 20s, then he is just telling you that to keep his options open for something better to come along.
If a man hasnt put a ring on your finger after 4 years its most likely he wont. Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free. Sorry girl.
Maybe he wants to have all his ';ducks in a row'; you know finances and all.
How do you get married on the sims 3?
I have these two sims and they are on ';romantic interest'; how do i get them engaged and married!?!?How do you get married on the sims 3?
Yea do the romantic options until it says, propose to go steady
then you do that
then ask to marry
and then have private wedding and you get married right there and thenHow do you get married on the sims 3?
first you have to get them become best friends...then lovers and then after they kiss...hug...and the rest for about 5-6 times you will get the option to get engaged :) and then you may ask the other sim to move in with you
The options will be on the ';romance'; menu once their relationship is good enough.
Yea do the romantic options until it says, propose to go steady
then you do that
then ask to marry
and then have private wedding and you get married right there and thenHow do you get married on the sims 3?
first you have to get them become best friends...then lovers and then after they kiss...hug...and the rest for about 5-6 times you will get the option to get engaged :) and then you may ask the other sim to move in with you
The options will be on the ';romance'; menu once their relationship is good enough.
Is any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
I DON'T mean cheating. what I mean is someone who does this only for fun and still loves her husband.
answer this only if you are such a person or know such a person and tell all the details.Is any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
Weird questionIs any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
Any man other than my husband that touches my breasts or butt is asking for a broken wrist. And that's before I tell my husband what happened.
But the woman I know who's kissing a man other than her husband is, in fact, cheating. I don't care how she justifies it to herself.
Yes because so many people think kissing a married woman's breasts and @ss isn't cheating (rolls eyes).
Another 8th grader out of school for the summer using mommy's computer to troll for jerk-off material.
I don't see anything wrong with it. I do it, and I love it. I would not mind if my SO was doing it, I think it's a turn on.
If both the husband and the wife are ok with another man doing this....then fine. But if either is not comfortable, or if it is done without the husbands knowledge...it IS cheating.
i have seen my sister in law do this right in front of my brother.
it was uncomfortable for me to watch.
answer this only if you are such a person or know such a person and tell all the details.Is any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
Weird questionIs any of you married women easy about having your breasts or butt touched by or kissing another man?
Any man other than my husband that touches my breasts or butt is asking for a broken wrist. And that's before I tell my husband what happened.
But the woman I know who's kissing a man other than her husband is, in fact, cheating. I don't care how she justifies it to herself.
Yes because so many people think kissing a married woman's breasts and @ss isn't cheating (rolls eyes).
Another 8th grader out of school for the summer using mommy's computer to troll for jerk-off material.
I don't see anything wrong with it. I do it, and I love it. I would not mind if my SO was doing it, I think it's a turn on.
If both the husband and the wife are ok with another man doing this....then fine. But if either is not comfortable, or if it is done without the husbands knowledge...it IS cheating.
i have seen my sister in law do this right in front of my brother.
it was uncomfortable for me to watch.
How long after getting married did you start TTC?
This question is for people who didn't have children before the marriage. How long after getting married did you start ttc and what effected the time it took?
I started ttc the day I got married lol, and when I get asked and I tell them, they say things like ';oh i'd never do that';. But i was with my partner for a loonggg time before and we both really wanted children.
xHow long after getting married did you start TTC?
Well, when we first got married I was like you, hubby used to call me BOB, for Baby on the Brain! But he wasn't ready yet. Then he was ready a few years later, and I wasn't, my career was going really well and didn't really feel the urge anymore (my sis had a baby so when I needed a baby fix I would visit my niece, plus I also saw how much work a baby was!).
So, it was a little over 7 years of marriage that we started TTC#1..it only took two months and 9 mos later our little baby girl arrived in Oct. 07. We are in the process of TTC#2 now, it is taking longer than we thought though.
best wishes and it is never too early for a baby, both Hubby %26amp; I wish that we had started our family earlier!How long after getting married did you start TTC?
i started having unprotected sex the day i got married, but i didn't start actively ttc until after a year and a half of being married. i had to use a clearblue fertility monitor once we started trying because i was so wrong on my ovulation dates. there is nothing wrong with ttc the day you get married. there are teenagers getting pregnant every day with no stability. i don't know why people would tell you they would never do that. who cares what people say anyway. you are married.
We threw out the birth control and started trying one year after we were married. We have been TTC for a little over a year now, with no luck, but we are still hoping.
I wouldn't have changed anything b/c we were together several years before we were married and we were both ready.
I got pregnant the second cycle after I was married. I LOVE my son to death but I understand why it may have been nice to have a few years of married life without children. That said, I would NOT change it now, my son is far greater than travelling and partying!
I have been with my hubby for 5 years, married for 3. We started trying 13 months ago and I have just fallen pregnant.
Nothing wrong with trying now!
Good luck! x
Dh and I started about a month after we got married and still ttc a year later.. I feel as if you have been w/ your partner for awhile then what's the use of waiting any longer? Good Luck.
We started immediately, we knew we wanted kids young, and would be able to support them. It took two weeks, haha.
We got married 6 months ago and we just started TTC. It doesn't matter what people say. All that matters is what you and your spouse want.
Five years after we got married. We have been together for 11 years and I am now 14 weeks pregnant. Happened on the first attempt.
We tried about 6 months after we got married,and now I'm being induced tonight at midnight!
We started on the honeymoon.
After 2 1/2 to 3 years of marriage. It took us 2 years!
almost 7 years...
I started ttc the day I got married lol, and when I get asked and I tell them, they say things like ';oh i'd never do that';. But i was with my partner for a loonggg time before and we both really wanted children.
xHow long after getting married did you start TTC?
Well, when we first got married I was like you, hubby used to call me BOB, for Baby on the Brain! But he wasn't ready yet. Then he was ready a few years later, and I wasn't, my career was going really well and didn't really feel the urge anymore (my sis had a baby so when I needed a baby fix I would visit my niece, plus I also saw how much work a baby was!).
So, it was a little over 7 years of marriage that we started TTC#1..it only took two months and 9 mos later our little baby girl arrived in Oct. 07. We are in the process of TTC#2 now, it is taking longer than we thought though.
best wishes and it is never too early for a baby, both Hubby %26amp; I wish that we had started our family earlier!How long after getting married did you start TTC?
i started having unprotected sex the day i got married, but i didn't start actively ttc until after a year and a half of being married. i had to use a clearblue fertility monitor once we started trying because i was so wrong on my ovulation dates. there is nothing wrong with ttc the day you get married. there are teenagers getting pregnant every day with no stability. i don't know why people would tell you they would never do that. who cares what people say anyway. you are married.
We threw out the birth control and started trying one year after we were married. We have been TTC for a little over a year now, with no luck, but we are still hoping.
I wouldn't have changed anything b/c we were together several years before we were married and we were both ready.
I got pregnant the second cycle after I was married. I LOVE my son to death but I understand why it may have been nice to have a few years of married life without children. That said, I would NOT change it now, my son is far greater than travelling and partying!
I have been with my hubby for 5 years, married for 3. We started trying 13 months ago and I have just fallen pregnant.
Nothing wrong with trying now!
Good luck! x
Dh and I started about a month after we got married and still ttc a year later.. I feel as if you have been w/ your partner for awhile then what's the use of waiting any longer? Good Luck.
We started immediately, we knew we wanted kids young, and would be able to support them. It took two weeks, haha.
We got married 6 months ago and we just started TTC. It doesn't matter what people say. All that matters is what you and your spouse want.
Five years after we got married. We have been together for 11 years and I am now 14 weeks pregnant. Happened on the first attempt.
We tried about 6 months after we got married,and now I'm being induced tonight at midnight!
We started on the honeymoon.
After 2 1/2 to 3 years of marriage. It took us 2 years!
almost 7 years...
I was turned down for a home loan because i am married and buying a condo with my soon to be next wife?
can we form a llc before we buy property. does my soon to be ex wife still can have claim to what i own?I was turned down for a home loan because i am married and buying a condo with my soon to be next wife?
Dude... wait until after you tie up the loose ends of the marriage.I was turned down for a home loan because i am married and buying a condo with my soon to be next wife?
See the answer I posted on your other question.dermalogica
Dude... wait until after you tie up the loose ends of the marriage.I was turned down for a home loan because i am married and buying a condo with my soon to be next wife?
See the answer I posted on your other question.
How Do You Get Married If I Live In Michigan and My Girlfriend Lives In Texas?
My Girlfriend And I Wanna Get Married, But She Lives In Texas And I Live In Michigan How Can We Get Married If We Are Apart? Cause We Wanna Get Married While She's There And I'm Here How Would We Do That?How Do You Get Married If I Live In Michigan and My Girlfriend Lives In Texas?
Marriage by proxy. google it.How Do You Get Married If I Live In Michigan and My Girlfriend Lives In Texas?
That would be exactly the type of thing I would expect from Michigan.
if you two want to get married, then why don't you at least live in the same place?
This is odd. Are one of you in prison?
Marriage by proxy. google it.How Do You Get Married If I Live In Michigan and My Girlfriend Lives In Texas?
That would be exactly the type of thing I would expect from Michigan.
if you two want to get married, then why don't you at least live in the same place?
This is odd. Are one of you in prison?
Are there laws that would prevent me getting married in Sicily?
Just wondering, as in some countries it's not valid - I live in the UK. Also, would you have to belong to a certain church or certain religion? Thanks xxAre there laws that would prevent me getting married in Sicily?
Ask at your local registry office in England if you are both resident in this country they can issue you with the paperwork needed to get married in Italy. If your intended is resident in Sicily then they can get the relevant paper work from their end. If you want to get married in a church I rather suspect you need to be a good catholic.Are there laws that would prevent me getting married in Sicily?
I hope not.
Ask at your local registry office in England if you are both resident in this country they can issue you with the paperwork needed to get married in Italy. If your intended is resident in Sicily then they can get the relevant paper work from their end. If you want to get married in a church I rather suspect you need to be a good catholic.Are there laws that would prevent me getting married in Sicily?
I hope not.
Are my husband and I still a young married couple?
I'm almost 29 and he's almost 40. Are we pretty much out of the young adult phase? I don't think one of us can be and the other not. We're both adults. Are my husband and I still a young married couple?
You're a married couple. I tend to think of a young married couple as equally 18-25 each to consider them a young married couple regardless of how long they've been married.Are my husband and I still a young married couple?
You are an adult (not young adult imo) and he's middle aged.
Yes, one of you could be a ';young adult'; and the other not. It depends on your individual ages. If you were 21 and he was 40, you wouldn't be a middle aged couple...you'd be a couple comprised of a young adult and a middle aged adult.
You are no longer a young married couple...I mean you are going to to be 30 and hes going on 40...thats middle age. I mean you may feel young but 27 is not that young compared to all the 18 year olds getting married now.
You are almost thirty, and he is 40. I would consider neither of you necessarily young.
Your considered a married couple, be happy with that. But year your out of the ';Young married couple'; as that only applies to men and women in their 20's....BOTH man and woman in their 20's
You are considered middle age couple!
Good question. When I think of ';young married couple'; its where both are in their 20's and early 30's. I'm not sure what I'd call your marriage. Maybe an ';older'; young married couple???
You've reached the middle age marker.
NOPE .. NO LONGER A YOUNG MARRIED COUPLE. SORRY
no, not a young married couple, he's middle aged and you're just an adult.
you are as young as you feel, don't let anyone tell you differently! age is nothing but a number!
You are. He's not.
I am in my 50's so I say yes!
You're a married couple. I tend to think of a young married couple as equally 18-25 each to consider them a young married couple regardless of how long they've been married.Are my husband and I still a young married couple?
You are an adult (not young adult imo) and he's middle aged.
Yes, one of you could be a ';young adult'; and the other not. It depends on your individual ages. If you were 21 and he was 40, you wouldn't be a middle aged couple...you'd be a couple comprised of a young adult and a middle aged adult.
You are no longer a young married couple...I mean you are going to to be 30 and hes going on 40...thats middle age. I mean you may feel young but 27 is not that young compared to all the 18 year olds getting married now.
You are almost thirty, and he is 40. I would consider neither of you necessarily young.
Your considered a married couple, be happy with that. But year your out of the ';Young married couple'; as that only applies to men and women in their 20's....BOTH man and woman in their 20's
You are considered middle age couple!
Good question. When I think of ';young married couple'; its where both are in their 20's and early 30's. I'm not sure what I'd call your marriage. Maybe an ';older'; young married couple???
You've reached the middle age marker.
NOPE .. NO LONGER A YOUNG MARRIED COUPLE. SORRY
no, not a young married couple, he's middle aged and you're just an adult.
you are as young as you feel, don't let anyone tell you differently! age is nothing but a number!
You are. He's not.
I am in my 50's so I say yes!
How do i file taxes since I was married for half of the year? I received alimony for part of the year?
I don't know how responsible I am for the income tax on the first half of the yearHow do i file taxes since I was married for half of the year? I received alimony for part of the year?
If you are divorced by Dec 31 and have no qualifying dependents, you would most likely file Single. You would claim your alimony and any other earnings (from a job, investments, etc) that belonged to you. If you have qualifying children you might qualify to file as Head of Household. Even if you don't use a professional to prepare your taxes you can still call them after January 2 and talk to them about what your proper filing status would be and if you are eligible for any credits. But you will only be responsible for money YOU earned, not your former spouse.How do i file taxes since I was married for half of the year? I received alimony for part of the year?
Your filing status is determined by your marital status as of Dec 31 of the year.
You'll claim the alimony as income.
You'll be filing on your own income only, for the entire year.
If you are in a community property state, and got divorced during the year, check with a CPA or with your lawyer.
1. Which half of the year: the first or the second?
If you were married on the last day of the year, you can file as married filing jointly or as married filing separately.
If you were not married on the last day of the year, because you divorced during the year, then you file as single, unless you are eligible to file as head of household, and decide to do so.
If you were not married on the last day of the year, because your spouse died during the year, you can file as married filing jointly if you wish.
2. If you file as married filing jointly, you are each responsible for the tax on the income of both persons for the entire year. If you file as single or as married filing separately, you are responsible for the tax on your own income for the entire year and none of the tax on the other person's income for any of the year.
3. You are responsible for the tax on the alimony you received. All alimony is taxable and must be reported on the return of the recipient. The only exception is if the IRS determines that it was actually child support which was misidentified as alimony so that they payer could deduct it.
If you are divorced by Dec 31 and have no qualifying dependents, you would most likely file Single. You would claim your alimony and any other earnings (from a job, investments, etc) that belonged to you. If you have qualifying children you might qualify to file as Head of Household. Even if you don't use a professional to prepare your taxes you can still call them after January 2 and talk to them about what your proper filing status would be and if you are eligible for any credits. But you will only be responsible for money YOU earned, not your former spouse.How do i file taxes since I was married for half of the year? I received alimony for part of the year?
Your filing status is determined by your marital status as of Dec 31 of the year.
You'll claim the alimony as income.
You'll be filing on your own income only, for the entire year.
If you are in a community property state, and got divorced during the year, check with a CPA or with your lawyer.
1. Which half of the year: the first or the second?
If you were married on the last day of the year, you can file as married filing jointly or as married filing separately.
If you were not married on the last day of the year, because you divorced during the year, then you file as single, unless you are eligible to file as head of household, and decide to do so.
If you were not married on the last day of the year, because your spouse died during the year, you can file as married filing jointly if you wish.
2. If you file as married filing jointly, you are each responsible for the tax on the income of both persons for the entire year. If you file as single or as married filing separately, you are responsible for the tax on your own income for the entire year and none of the tax on the other person's income for any of the year.
3. You are responsible for the tax on the alimony you received. All alimony is taxable and must be reported on the return of the recipient. The only exception is if the IRS determines that it was actually child support which was misidentified as alimony so that they payer could deduct it.
If either the bride or groom have been married before, is white for the wedding a no no?
If he's been married, can she still wear white? If she's been married, does his tie have to be ivory or something other than white?If either the bride or groom have been married before, is white for the wedding a no no?
She can wear white. It's just a color. Most of the first time brides who wear white are not virgins either.If either the bride or groom have been married before, is white for the wedding a no no?
This all depends on how ';traditional'; you want to be with your wedding!
Me, I was a ';pure white'; bride (in every sense of the idea) and yet I had wine-red trim on my wedding dress, because I thought it was absolutely gorgeous.
Then again, we also played video game music for our wedding ceremony. At least it was classical-sounding, but still... Hm. :)
Don't worry too much with sticking to tradition - not many people do, any more. A lot of this is going to depend on how traditional the bride wants to be - trust me on this one. ;) And besides, a wedding is supposed to be a memorable celebration of the joining of two hearts and two lives - not a checklist of things that ';have'; to be done!
It's 2009 not 1949, wear whatever colour you like.
I don't think so.. It depends on the people getting married and their families if they are very traditional and don't want to upset anyone. Like the first answerer said, wear whatever you like :).
I really don't think there's any problem with the bride wearing white even if it is her husband's second wedding. If it's the bride's second wedding, then I would probably not go with white, but there's no rule on this.
White as a wedding color came about when Queen Victoria got married. She wore a white dress that became a symbol of wealth and extravagance because it's so hard to clean that in those days you basically had to throw it away after one wearing. Before that, brides usually just bought a nice dress (that they could wear again) or wore their best dress. Now it's become common that the bride doesn't wear her dress ever again!
More recently, people have adopted the idea that the white represents virginity, which is why you often hear jokes about a bride who ';shouldn't be wearing white.'; Some people therefore say that brides who are marrying for the second time shouldn't wear white. Again, this doesn't really make sense when you remember that white traditionally represented wealth, not virginity.
I've never heard of the OTHER person having restrictions put upon them, though. For example, if the groom has been married before but the bride had never been married, I've never heard that the BRIDE couldn't wear white just because the groom had been married. That seems ridiculous! And the groom doesn't always have a white tie. In fact, white ties are reserved for only the MOST formal of weddings. Most grooms wear ties in the wedding colors. So I've never heard of the groom's attire at all being affected by his marital status or his bride's marital status.
omg no! What are you supposed to announce to the world that you aren't ';pure'; anymore or something??? The white dress initially was a sign of wealth anyway because it wasn't practical for the middle class to have a white dress that could not easily be kept cleaned. It was a luxury for upper class brides. Look it up.
No color is a no-no anymore.
How many times the groom has been married has absolutely NOTHING to do with what color the bride wears....if it's her first marriage and she wants the traditional white bridal dress, she wears it.
Tie color? Aw, COME ON...now you are getting rediculously silly.......at this rate why not slap a sign on your backs stating your status (divorced, single, married x times, etc).......
Jeeze.
No one cares about the color of wedding attire anymore. The only reason white came into play was because of Queen Victoria. Unless the bride or groom is Queen Victoria, it doesn't matter what color they wear.
She can wear white. It's just a color. Most of the first time brides who wear white are not virgins either.If either the bride or groom have been married before, is white for the wedding a no no?
This all depends on how ';traditional'; you want to be with your wedding!
Me, I was a ';pure white'; bride (in every sense of the idea) and yet I had wine-red trim on my wedding dress, because I thought it was absolutely gorgeous.
Then again, we also played video game music for our wedding ceremony. At least it was classical-sounding, but still... Hm. :)
Don't worry too much with sticking to tradition - not many people do, any more. A lot of this is going to depend on how traditional the bride wants to be - trust me on this one. ;) And besides, a wedding is supposed to be a memorable celebration of the joining of two hearts and two lives - not a checklist of things that ';have'; to be done!
It's 2009 not 1949, wear whatever colour you like.
I don't think so.. It depends on the people getting married and their families if they are very traditional and don't want to upset anyone. Like the first answerer said, wear whatever you like :).
I really don't think there's any problem with the bride wearing white even if it is her husband's second wedding. If it's the bride's second wedding, then I would probably not go with white, but there's no rule on this.
White as a wedding color came about when Queen Victoria got married. She wore a white dress that became a symbol of wealth and extravagance because it's so hard to clean that in those days you basically had to throw it away after one wearing. Before that, brides usually just bought a nice dress (that they could wear again) or wore their best dress. Now it's become common that the bride doesn't wear her dress ever again!
More recently, people have adopted the idea that the white represents virginity, which is why you often hear jokes about a bride who ';shouldn't be wearing white.'; Some people therefore say that brides who are marrying for the second time shouldn't wear white. Again, this doesn't really make sense when you remember that white traditionally represented wealth, not virginity.
I've never heard of the OTHER person having restrictions put upon them, though. For example, if the groom has been married before but the bride had never been married, I've never heard that the BRIDE couldn't wear white just because the groom had been married. That seems ridiculous! And the groom doesn't always have a white tie. In fact, white ties are reserved for only the MOST formal of weddings. Most grooms wear ties in the wedding colors. So I've never heard of the groom's attire at all being affected by his marital status or his bride's marital status.
omg no! What are you supposed to announce to the world that you aren't ';pure'; anymore or something??? The white dress initially was a sign of wealth anyway because it wasn't practical for the middle class to have a white dress that could not easily be kept cleaned. It was a luxury for upper class brides. Look it up.
No color is a no-no anymore.
How many times the groom has been married has absolutely NOTHING to do with what color the bride wears....if it's her first marriage and she wants the traditional white bridal dress, she wears it.
Tie color? Aw, COME ON...now you are getting rediculously silly.......at this rate why not slap a sign on your backs stating your status (divorced, single, married x times, etc).......
Jeeze.
No one cares about the color of wedding attire anymore. The only reason white came into play was because of Queen Victoria. Unless the bride or groom is Queen Victoria, it doesn't matter what color they wear.
Do I have a chance of ever being married?
I am a large woman - 5'11'; and I weight 250. I have a very bad disposition and temper. I intimidate men alot - they are scared of me. I like to physically threaten men when they make me mad. Do you think I'll ever find a man? Where do you recommend I find one? I work in shiping/receiving and am surrounded by men but they are all sissies.Do I have a chance of ever being married?
why not, find a pushover man that you can boss aroundDo I have a chance of ever being married?
Well first of all size wont matter if you would let the right one in. It sounds like you seriously have to change a few things within your self and find out what is the real reason you are mean to men and scare them away is it because you are scared of getting hurt? If you don't change and do some soul searching then you will be all alone and do you seriously want that? Well work would pro bally be you best bet but you must change yourself mentally spice up you personality. Every time you think of being mean to a man laugh or think of something extremely funny to break those mean thoughts you want to say, or take a deep breathe and count to ten before talking. It sounds as if you are scared of rejection and that might be why you are so mean. It might take time but if you would change the way you speak to them they might come around and trust me if a few men know you are looking for a relationship guys will help you find a man more then a women will help.
I have family members that have had the same discription and they married but they went through hell. If you know you have issues and traits that scare men away you have to options love you fro you and if you can not find a man that that does not mind a good fight then forget them option 2 search deep in yourself , find out why you are so violent and hateful and wowrk on that so some one wil be attracted to you Good Luck
Now this is a Tuff one .
Being big may not be a man killer , but treating people like crap will do it every time .
First , you must be gentile and kind to any prospects .
Men want to be nurtured and loved . They expect you to be civil
and somewhat ladylike with good manners .
No body cares about being around a mean or Tuff women .
Being rough will only run them away .
Try to be feminine and sensual . Men love soft , sensual ,
soft spoken , sensual women . Respect him and treat him well .
You may treat others poorly , be your personal relationship with your man should always be different , as though your happiness depended on it .
Men are all around you , everywhere . including good ones .
but , If they fear you , they will never approach you .
You have to show them your good side .
I don't think your size or weight has anything to do with your lack of a male companion, but your personality needs some work...from what you say. AND, what guy would want to be around a woman who physically threatens them? Dig deep my dear and make a resolution to soften yourself around the edges before looking for a guy!
Woah Girl, did you read your own question... and you wander why your single? If you intimdate men, how on earth do you expect to find some one, you have some serious self esteem issues, I am not a small gal, but I am strong, and I never felt I was intimdating, but I was independent and guys like that, But jees, slow down and think about yourself and your opinions.... then wonder why you are single.
At that size, your chances of attracting a man are slim. The mean disposition is not going to help.
I suggest playing for the other team or taking care of some (no pun intended) BIG problems.
No, by the sounds of it you are a very scary woman with anger issues. Maybe you should try to be a little less imposing. Or you could marry a longshoreman, I hear they are tough.
Hmmm. You have a very bad disposition and temper and like to physically threaten people. I'd be more worried about your chances of going to jail if I were you.
Find a good therapist first.
That anger thing is REALLY ugly to men - forget the fact that you're taller and bigger than many men. It's the anger issues that will send 'em packing.
Maybe a Bulgarian weightlifter could sort you out
www.pof.comdermalogica
why not, find a pushover man that you can boss aroundDo I have a chance of ever being married?
Well first of all size wont matter if you would let the right one in. It sounds like you seriously have to change a few things within your self and find out what is the real reason you are mean to men and scare them away is it because you are scared of getting hurt? If you don't change and do some soul searching then you will be all alone and do you seriously want that? Well work would pro bally be you best bet but you must change yourself mentally spice up you personality. Every time you think of being mean to a man laugh or think of something extremely funny to break those mean thoughts you want to say, or take a deep breathe and count to ten before talking. It sounds as if you are scared of rejection and that might be why you are so mean. It might take time but if you would change the way you speak to them they might come around and trust me if a few men know you are looking for a relationship guys will help you find a man more then a women will help.
I have family members that have had the same discription and they married but they went through hell. If you know you have issues and traits that scare men away you have to options love you fro you and if you can not find a man that that does not mind a good fight then forget them option 2 search deep in yourself , find out why you are so violent and hateful and wowrk on that so some one wil be attracted to you Good Luck
Now this is a Tuff one .
Being big may not be a man killer , but treating people like crap will do it every time .
First , you must be gentile and kind to any prospects .
Men want to be nurtured and loved . They expect you to be civil
and somewhat ladylike with good manners .
No body cares about being around a mean or Tuff women .
Being rough will only run them away .
Try to be feminine and sensual . Men love soft , sensual ,
soft spoken , sensual women . Respect him and treat him well .
You may treat others poorly , be your personal relationship with your man should always be different , as though your happiness depended on it .
Men are all around you , everywhere . including good ones .
but , If they fear you , they will never approach you .
You have to show them your good side .
I don't think your size or weight has anything to do with your lack of a male companion, but your personality needs some work...from what you say. AND, what guy would want to be around a woman who physically threatens them? Dig deep my dear and make a resolution to soften yourself around the edges before looking for a guy!
Woah Girl, did you read your own question... and you wander why your single? If you intimdate men, how on earth do you expect to find some one, you have some serious self esteem issues, I am not a small gal, but I am strong, and I never felt I was intimdating, but I was independent and guys like that, But jees, slow down and think about yourself and your opinions.... then wonder why you are single.
At that size, your chances of attracting a man are slim. The mean disposition is not going to help.
I suggest playing for the other team or taking care of some (no pun intended) BIG problems.
No, by the sounds of it you are a very scary woman with anger issues. Maybe you should try to be a little less imposing. Or you could marry a longshoreman, I hear they are tough.
Hmmm. You have a very bad disposition and temper and like to physically threaten people. I'd be more worried about your chances of going to jail if I were you.
Find a good therapist first.
That anger thing is REALLY ugly to men - forget the fact that you're taller and bigger than many men. It's the anger issues that will send 'em packing.
Maybe a Bulgarian weightlifter could sort you out
www.pof.com
Any good hostel in Tokyo for a just married couple?
Hostels, no hiltons, 4 seassons... Are hostel private rooms for mixed couples? Someone told me they aren't... Any good hostel in Tokyo for a just married couple?
Check out the sakura hotel. It's not a hostel, but does cater to backpackers and business people. It's cheap, they have private rooms, and the little cafe on the first floor is pretty cool. My (now) husband and I stayed there a few years back and were very happy with the hotel. The great thing about the place is that there is no curfew and the staff all speak english very well.Any good hostel in Tokyo for a just married couple?
Hostels are cheap because they're just a bunch of bunk beds and cots in a big room. No mixed couples, no privacy at all!
You can get a nice (compared to hostel at least) room at an inexpensive hotel for around 8,000-10,000yen. Or at the very least, a few hours in a love hotel for 5,000yen. That's something you should try at least once in your life anyway. :) You only get one honeymoon!
http://www.jnto.go.jp/eng/arrange/accomo鈥?/a>
try the above link. official japanese government sponsored website part of yokoso japan. They will provide you with a lot of information as well as a big range ofaccommodationss to suit all types of travel. (you may want to splash out one nights stay in a ryokan-traditional inn for example)
Tokyo might be famous for being advanced and is amazing but Kyoto would be much nicer for the beauty of nature and it has a more romantic feeling. I think you would like it more if you want that vibe.
^_^
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Forget the hostel and find a nice inexpensive hotel...........How many times will you get to Tokyo?... Make the most of it and have a great time!!!
Check out the sakura hotel. It's not a hostel, but does cater to backpackers and business people. It's cheap, they have private rooms, and the little cafe on the first floor is pretty cool. My (now) husband and I stayed there a few years back and were very happy with the hotel. The great thing about the place is that there is no curfew and the staff all speak english very well.Any good hostel in Tokyo for a just married couple?
Hostels are cheap because they're just a bunch of bunk beds and cots in a big room. No mixed couples, no privacy at all!
You can get a nice (compared to hostel at least) room at an inexpensive hotel for around 8,000-10,000yen. Or at the very least, a few hours in a love hotel for 5,000yen. That's something you should try at least once in your life anyway. :) You only get one honeymoon!
http://www.jnto.go.jp/eng/arrange/accomo鈥?/a>
try the above link. official japanese government sponsored website part of yokoso japan. They will provide you with a lot of information as well as a big range ofaccommodationss to suit all types of travel. (you may want to splash out one nights stay in a ryokan-traditional inn for example)
Tokyo might be famous for being advanced and is amazing but Kyoto would be much nicer for the beauty of nature and it has a more romantic feeling. I think you would like it more if you want that vibe.
^_^
Help me out somebody? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
Forget the hostel and find a nice inexpensive hotel...........How many times will you get to Tokyo?... Make the most of it and have a great time!!!
Why was Mary a virgin when she was married to Joseph?
Didn't they 'do it' on their wedding night?Why was Mary a virgin when she was married to Joseph?
I'm pretty sure that she wasn't a virgin (well not that she existed..but I'll play along), but in one of the translations ';without sin'; was changed to ';virgin'; for some reason.
Which is why I don't understand why people put so much faith in the bible. The original accounts were 1) oral 2) metaphorical 3) interpreted different ways 4) translated different ways and 5) transcribed different ways.Why was Mary a virgin when she was married to Joseph?
She wasn't a virgin after being raped by (you know who) and then giving birth to (you know who).
That is an interesting concept: Rape a young girl, become the fetus to grow up to be extirpated and then bring yourself back to life. Then if people don't believe it, condemn the nasty non-believers to a forever torture of burning after they die. Also make the evil doers even IF they do believe suffer needlessly.
That is not make believe or a myth-- True story!
No, because she was heavily pregnant on the day they were married. It says specifically in the Bible that he had no relations with her until after the baby was born. The part that is amazing to me is that she rode a donkey or walked 60 miles while 9 mo pregnant! She was one tough lady!
It does not say anywhere that she was a virgin, but she was betrothed to Joseph meaning engaged to him, not married..She was fertilised by the angel who came to see her.
She was a virgin when she gave birth to Jesus. She had relations with her husband after Jesus' birth.
Her vejayjay was a one way street prior to our ';saviour'; traversing the holy canal... After this, Christians don't really care which way the traffic goes.
Before the wedding, a angel told Joseph about The baby, so he did not have sex with Mary till after JESUS was born.
Because they didn't have relations until after the birth of Jesus.
Most people knew Mary was a slut, Joseph was just naive.
Maybe Joseph was gay
The scripture says they had no union until after Jesus was born.
I'm pretty sure that she wasn't a virgin (well not that she existed..but I'll play along), but in one of the translations ';without sin'; was changed to ';virgin'; for some reason.
Which is why I don't understand why people put so much faith in the bible. The original accounts were 1) oral 2) metaphorical 3) interpreted different ways 4) translated different ways and 5) transcribed different ways.Why was Mary a virgin when she was married to Joseph?
She wasn't a virgin after being raped by (you know who) and then giving birth to (you know who).
That is an interesting concept: Rape a young girl, become the fetus to grow up to be extirpated and then bring yourself back to life. Then if people don't believe it, condemn the nasty non-believers to a forever torture of burning after they die. Also make the evil doers even IF they do believe suffer needlessly.
That is not make believe or a myth-- True story!
No, because she was heavily pregnant on the day they were married. It says specifically in the Bible that he had no relations with her until after the baby was born. The part that is amazing to me is that she rode a donkey or walked 60 miles while 9 mo pregnant! She was one tough lady!
It does not say anywhere that she was a virgin, but she was betrothed to Joseph meaning engaged to him, not married..She was fertilised by the angel who came to see her.
She was a virgin when she gave birth to Jesus. She had relations with her husband after Jesus' birth.
Her vejayjay was a one way street prior to our ';saviour'; traversing the holy canal... After this, Christians don't really care which way the traffic goes.
Before the wedding, a angel told Joseph about The baby, so he did not have sex with Mary till after JESUS was born.
Because they didn't have relations until after the birth of Jesus.
Most people knew Mary was a slut, Joseph was just naive.
Maybe Joseph was gay
The scripture says they had no union until after Jesus was born.
Being married and one getting his phD is that possible?
My husband is planning on getting his phD and I will be working as an Elementary School teacher. With not most pay and no full time job for him. Also, I will most likely be student teaching the first 8 months. we love each other we have been living a part because he was doing his bachelors somewhere else and now he is moving to where I am completing my bachelors.Being married and one getting his phD is that possible?
Neither excludes the other and I know from personal experience.
Both my wife and myself are currently working on getting PhD's. I have about 3 to 4 months left (and I am madly writing my thesis), while my wife is only 1 month into the 3 years required. We survive on scholarships (one each) and the one day a week my wife works in retail (to get some extra money for herself and family). I pickup any extra I can at uni (like exam marking, tutoring etc).
It is not the easiest life and our budget is tight, but we are together and for the most part happy. Once I finish I can then get into the workforce and then it wouldn't be so bad.Being married and one getting his phD is that possible?
are you asking if you will resent him if you have to support him for ten years and then he still wont make much money making you the permanent breadwinner?
you two have to be on the same page as to who does what and who earns what and how much time is allotted for school. a man will work 24/7 to complete a doctorate so he can support his family, a boy will try to go to school for the rest of his life on your dime while he makes endless excuses as to why it is taking so long. which is he? is he driven to succeed and get going, or is he looking for someone to support him forever. the answer will determine your future success and happiness.
If you can make the bills, why not make it possible? You two have to be there for each other no matter what, right? You still love each other, right? So make your dreams come true, both of you, and live your lives appreciating what you have.
Sounds like you two might want to prioritize your lives. What you're both planning isn't conducive to a good marriage. It might be better to wait until you're closer at the end of your educational goals.
If you can support both of you on your teaching salary then yes. If not then no. I know people who have done it while married but they and their spouse can support them to take the time to study.
Having him there with you should make it easier. It is possible, the two of you will really have to step up and be there for each other.
Of course it is possble, rent a cheap placce and keep your bills low
whats the problem ?
Neither excludes the other and I know from personal experience.
Both my wife and myself are currently working on getting PhD's. I have about 3 to 4 months left (and I am madly writing my thesis), while my wife is only 1 month into the 3 years required. We survive on scholarships (one each) and the one day a week my wife works in retail (to get some extra money for herself and family). I pickup any extra I can at uni (like exam marking, tutoring etc).
It is not the easiest life and our budget is tight, but we are together and for the most part happy. Once I finish I can then get into the workforce and then it wouldn't be so bad.Being married and one getting his phD is that possible?
are you asking if you will resent him if you have to support him for ten years and then he still wont make much money making you the permanent breadwinner?
you two have to be on the same page as to who does what and who earns what and how much time is allotted for school. a man will work 24/7 to complete a doctorate so he can support his family, a boy will try to go to school for the rest of his life on your dime while he makes endless excuses as to why it is taking so long. which is he? is he driven to succeed and get going, or is he looking for someone to support him forever. the answer will determine your future success and happiness.
If you can make the bills, why not make it possible? You two have to be there for each other no matter what, right? You still love each other, right? So make your dreams come true, both of you, and live your lives appreciating what you have.
Sounds like you two might want to prioritize your lives. What you're both planning isn't conducive to a good marriage. It might be better to wait until you're closer at the end of your educational goals.
If you can support both of you on your teaching salary then yes. If not then no. I know people who have done it while married but they and their spouse can support them to take the time to study.
Having him there with you should make it easier. It is possible, the two of you will really have to step up and be there for each other.
Of course it is possble, rent a cheap placce and keep your bills low
whats the problem ?
How many years should you date before getting married? And what is the best age to do it?
I am 20, and have been with my love, (21) for 2 yrs. I am no where close to getting married, we're waiting until after college for both of us. But everyone i tell says 2 years is a long time to be in a relationship these days. But it doesn't feel that long. What is the norm these days of dating until marriage?How many years should you date before getting married? And what is the best age to do it?
My wife and I did the same during college and got married after. We have been together for 16 married for 12. She is my best friend and I do not regret being with her for one day. Remember by all accounts the closer you are before marriage you will not go through the getting adjusted phase after. And you will more likely get past the 7 year itch without a hitch.
Good Luck and Have FunHow many years should you date before getting married? And what is the best age to do it?
well that is not a matter of measuring!
i have been dating my ex for 4 years and we were to get married after college also but we broke up right after we got graduated!
then after a while i fill in love with another guy who i never met, actually we me through chatting on msn and we decided to meet after 2 months of chatting, he lived ijn another country, we are now engaged!
it's not how long u date, it's how good u get along
I honestly don't believe there is an answer to this. I say this because my parents got married due to my mother accidentally getting pregnant. They were 18 %26amp; 19 yrs old and have now been together for 30 years! I was with my ex-husband for less than a year before getting engaged and married within 2 1/2 years and he left before our first wedding anniversary. I was 24 and he was 30 when we married. It was his second marriage too. Also, you might want to ask yourselves, what is the need of getting married? Will it actually change anything, other than getting to call each other husband and wife??
I would say it takes about 5 - 7 years to date before getting married. It takes time to get to know your partner. 2 years is to short know him or 2b getting married.
The age you should get married is from 25years.
any number of years if both r faithful, afterall its ur life
It all depends on the people involved. For me my love we have been together for 10 months and living together for 3 months. If he proposed I would say yes. But we would have a long engagement about a year.
I am 24 and got married when I was 22. We got married after 8 months of dating. If it is the right person then you should get married when you are ready. The only thing I would have done differently is finish school. I think you are on the right track.
I don't think the length of time is what is most important. I would consider the fact if you are committed to each other and to a life long relationship. I am happy for you and wish you the best of luck.
Listen ONLY to yourself. That is where YOUR real answer lies.
It ain't at Yahoo sweetheart, I promise you that
i would say about 4-5, they usually say the relationship feels the most strain and testing at the 2 year mark so definately more than 2
My wife and I did the same during college and got married after. We have been together for 16 married for 12. She is my best friend and I do not regret being with her for one day. Remember by all accounts the closer you are before marriage you will not go through the getting adjusted phase after. And you will more likely get past the 7 year itch without a hitch.
Good Luck and Have FunHow many years should you date before getting married? And what is the best age to do it?
well that is not a matter of measuring!
i have been dating my ex for 4 years and we were to get married after college also but we broke up right after we got graduated!
then after a while i fill in love with another guy who i never met, actually we me through chatting on msn and we decided to meet after 2 months of chatting, he lived ijn another country, we are now engaged!
it's not how long u date, it's how good u get along
I honestly don't believe there is an answer to this. I say this because my parents got married due to my mother accidentally getting pregnant. They were 18 %26amp; 19 yrs old and have now been together for 30 years! I was with my ex-husband for less than a year before getting engaged and married within 2 1/2 years and he left before our first wedding anniversary. I was 24 and he was 30 when we married. It was his second marriage too. Also, you might want to ask yourselves, what is the need of getting married? Will it actually change anything, other than getting to call each other husband and wife??
I would say it takes about 5 - 7 years to date before getting married. It takes time to get to know your partner. 2 years is to short know him or 2b getting married.
The age you should get married is from 25years.
any number of years if both r faithful, afterall its ur life
It all depends on the people involved. For me my love we have been together for 10 months and living together for 3 months. If he proposed I would say yes. But we would have a long engagement about a year.
I am 24 and got married when I was 22. We got married after 8 months of dating. If it is the right person then you should get married when you are ready. The only thing I would have done differently is finish school. I think you are on the right track.
I don't think the length of time is what is most important. I would consider the fact if you are committed to each other and to a life long relationship. I am happy for you and wish you the best of luck.
Listen ONLY to yourself. That is where YOUR real answer lies.
It ain't at Yahoo sweetheart, I promise you that
i would say about 4-5, they usually say the relationship feels the most strain and testing at the 2 year mark so definately more than 2
Are there any positive/negative sides for 2 international students (F-1 visas), when they get married in US?
I am and my girlfriend (we are from the same country) were planning to get married in the US, and both have F-1 visa status. We were wondering, if there are any advantages/disadvantages, after obtaining marriage licence. Would it be helpful to any immigration processes.Are there any positive/negative sides for 2 international students (F-1 visas), when they get married in US?
you may have advantages in terms of insurance coverage or tax returns. getting married in US doesn't really affect your current visa status unless either one of you wants to change F1 status to F2 dependent status. one of you can also claim as dependent spouse if either of you have any future immigration petition file to USCIS.Are there any positive/negative sides for 2 international students (F-1 visas), when they get married in US?
F1 visas are for full time students. I see no advantage or disadvantages to getting married now. It would not help in any way for immigration purposes. When your studies are complete, both go back to your own country.
you may have advantages in terms of insurance coverage or tax returns. getting married in US doesn't really affect your current visa status unless either one of you wants to change F1 status to F2 dependent status. one of you can also claim as dependent spouse if either of you have any future immigration petition file to USCIS.Are there any positive/negative sides for 2 international students (F-1 visas), when they get married in US?
F1 visas are for full time students. I see no advantage or disadvantages to getting married now. It would not help in any way for immigration purposes. When your studies are complete, both go back to your own country.
How can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
How can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
i know it is possible
nothing is impossible okay
but the question is ?
Is he worth marrying?
i am 18 yrs old female from canada
origin: east indian
height 5-4
eyes: greenHow can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
Maybe if you dream about being married to him, it could be possible.How can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
Go to one of his games and show him your boobs.dermalogica
i know it is possible
nothing is impossible okay
but the question is ?
Is he worth marrying?
i am 18 yrs old female from canada
origin: east indian
height 5-4
eyes: greenHow can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
Maybe if you dream about being married to him, it could be possible.How can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
Go to one of his games and show him your boobs.
Do you blame the woman for starting an affair or the married man?
I blame the woman, as a woman should know better, woman to woman. If the married man pursues the woman, it is the man's fault, but if a woman pursues the married man, she is a sl..t, which is much worse. I think the married man will blame the slu..ty woman for destroying his married, therefore. . Do you blame the woman for starting an affair or the married man?
You have to see in two angles.
first, if a woman starting an affair
and if a man starting an affair
with married man and woman
first we take a woman. she is married and running a family with her husband who married her. if the same woman begins an affair with another man, it is purely fault on the side of woman. she not only having to start an illegal affair with another man and spoiling the smooth life of another man and also spoiling her family. This will bring sad and sorrow to both family for a pleasure of small hours. The life gone to dark to both. This is because of a woman. if the man is having good qualities, he might reject at the initial stage, but who will deny an opportunity is the matter. yes, there are persons who did not want to spoil their families.
at the same time, if a married man starting an illegal affair with a woman, the above said effect will come to both families. A nice woman will advice or reject and if she fell in the nett, the sad and sorrows are the result.
Both should realise their family, the children, the children's future, the respect in the society etc., if not realised the end will be worst.
but, when comparing the man and woman, the affected party is woman than man. if the approval given by a woman only, the man enters into the scene, so woman is more responsible for good and bad, because she is most affected than man. The man can escape and he may say some reasons which will be approved by the society, but woman's reasons are not acceptable by the society.
i blame the woman only. if she is careful and thinking of pros and cons, she will not think and enter into illegal affairs. The man is weak in sex and falling with attraction will be natural and therefore, i blame the woman only. This is my opinion.Do you blame the woman for starting an affair or the married man?
Actually, i would blame the wife and the husband not the ';mistress';.
Let's face it, if a man is cheating on his wife, then there are problems in the marriage that is causing the man to look elsewhere for what he is not getting at home. Most people are mistaken and think that married men cheat because they want sex. This is not true, married men usually cheat because their wives are acting in such a manner that it makes them crave affection and attention from other women.
This can be attributed to the man not telling his wife what is wrong, or the woman just not caring to understand men in general. Whatever the case may be the result is the same, the man ends up looking for a woman that will make himself feel good about himself. So in that aspect it is the wife that is to blame.
On the other hand, the man should either keep trying to tell his wife what is wrong. And if unsuccessful he should realize that it is time to end the marriage. Unfotunately most men for some reason don't end it, before looking for something else. So he is to blame.
You can't really blame it on the other woman quite simply, if the man was being treated right at home she would have no chance with the married man. And if the man had enough morals, there is nothing this other woman could do to get him to have an affair with her.
NOBODY IS RIGHT IN THE SITUATION, THEREFORE, BOTH THE MAN AND WOMAN INVOLVED IN THE AFFAIR ARE WRONG. HOWEVER, IF YOU WANT TO PLACE THE BLAME, THAT LIES DIRECTLY IN ON THE MARRIED INDIVIDUAL. IF A MAN CHEATS ON HIS WIFE, HE IS THE ONE CHEATING; NOT THE OTHER WOMAN. SHE HAS ABSOLUTELY NO OBLIGATION TO THE WIFE WHATSOEVER. HOW CAN ONE EXPECT MORE FROM A STRANGER THAN YOU DO THE PERSON WHO VOWED TO LOVE, CHERISH, AND RESPECT YOU TIL DEATH DO YOU PART. DON'T GET ME WRONG, MORALLY THE OTHER WOMAN OR MAN IS JUST AS WRONG BUT YOU CAN'T BLAME THEM FOR NOT RESPECTING A MARRIAGE THAT THEY HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO.
I HATE SEEING WOMEN MAD AT THE OTHER WOMAN. NEWSFLASH: YOUR HUSBANDS CHEATING ON YOU...NOT HER! HOW CAN YOU EXPECT MORE FROM A WOMAN THEN THE MAN WHO IS ACTUALLY MARRIED TO YOU?
You know, married women can cheat with single men too. It does go both ways. As for who's to blame, it all depends on the situation; it's not set in stone. Did the married person deceive the other into thinking they weren't married? And what if they're both married? Is only one at fault there? You can't just say someone's to blame if such-and-such is what happened. That's why we have a judicial system, as saying who's to blame for something is a case-by-case thing.
You're seriously not very intelligent, are you? If the guy, who's actually IN the committed relatonship, chooses to sleep around with a woman, it's the woman who's more to blame? Take it from a guy... we know what we're doing when unzip our pants. It's alway the person who does the cheating who committed the greater offense. Just because a woman enjoys sex and your man apparently enjoys giving it to her, doesn't mean she's a slut... it means your man wanted a piece of what she was offering and apparently doesn't care that much about you. LOL Think it through, please...
Well i blame the husband first off he is your husband he shouldn't be cheating on you. But it is the woman's fault to if she knows he is married i hate sl*ts that go after married men. My husband cheated on me with his sk*nk of an ex wife and she knows that we are married and her excuse is that she was married to him first well i told her she wasn't married to him anymore i was so back off! They both are sh*theads for doing what they did. I blame them both they both now better they are not stupid well maybe they are i guess.
fault is of both of them.
but y u guys r like blaming woman only. if he is with him ask him y he is havng another affair when he is married? i know every married man will blame that another woman in his life to destroy his marrieage but they dont have guts to accept that feeling that they were bored in their marriage so thay wanted to have smthng new. its not that that woman has destroyed this persons marriage but also that man has detroyed her whole life. think on that dude and b4 callilng sm1 these bad words know how come that woman is in that relationship than use these words.
My thinking on this is that if the man is married, it doesn't matter if a woman comes and wants him, he knows his responsibility and therefore should reject the offer.
My ex-husband had an affair, and I never blamed the girl. In fact, I kinda made friends with her and realised that she is just like me. So no, I don't blame her. She might have fallen in love with him, but it was his responsibility to say ';No';.
I blame the man because he is the one who has a commitment to another person. Even if the woman initiates, he is the one with the commitment and he is the one who should tell her to back off. She is not obligated to his wife, even though she is wrong, she has no obligation to her. The husband does. He said the vows.
No, the man! A ho is gonna be a ho, but he's the one who made the commitment, not the other woman. He's the one who is supposed to say ';Honey, there is something wrong with our relationship and I wanna work it out,'; instead of going, ';I gotta problem, lemme go make it better by cheating'; (which never makes it better)
BS!! Blame the woman...*shakes head* How typical of you. I blame both of them, woman to woman, she should know better, I agree. But the marriage must mean nothing to the man if he feels the need to be intimate with another female, knowing his wife would be devastatingly hurt. Always remember...it takes two to tango...!!!
this really is a load of BS you obviously have never been cheated on otherwise you would not come out with such drivel. We have all got minds of our own and are responsible for our own actions, also one of the first words we learn as a child is no, which seems to be forgotten in situations like this. I honestly think you do not know what you are talking about.
You blame the person that was suppose to be loyal to you. If my hubby every cheated, I'd be mad at the woman, but I would fault him cause his loyalty should be to me. She has no loyalties to me - she's just doing her (can't knock her for that)!
It matters not who is to blame as far as the person in your marriage and the person who is not is concerned. He's the one who is accountable to you. She is not.
They're both to blame and perhaps a small percentage on the spouses at home for doing whatever to cause their spouse to want to cheat.
Nobody is 100% innocent here and it takes everyone to have a good square dance.
its actually the fault of the husband for cheating,he destroyed the marriage, he made the choice to do it.other women really don't care they are seeking the kind of life the wife has.
Both are commiting adultry...a little more of the person who is married, whether that person is man or woman....they are comitting adultry AND breaking the vows they made to their spouse and to God.
The MAN is the one who took the marriage vows. The woman might be guilty of bad judgement for being with a married man, but the man is the one betraying his wife.
while the other woman is a certain ***** for her seductions or falling into his trap of seduction. it takes two. the married man and the sl*t will of course blame the wife.
Both parties are to blame for getting married... marriage is too permanent- so if you are gonna have affairs, just don't get married - if you expect the other do have affairs, then don't get married...
NOT both equally.
Blame the cheating hubby much more than the woman: 90 to 10.
Is the woman guilty of not caring about somebody else's wife? Yes, still guilty but much less than the hubby, who did not care about his OWN wife.
Both!
You can blame the guy for being a douche, and the woman for being a home wrecker at the same time.
Its everyones fault really.
I blame the guy...why? because I fell in love with a married man too...and I admit I flirt with him (well im not the only one) but we just ended up to be friends. Im so disappointed but I admire him more because I believe he really loves his family...
They're both at fault.
The only possible exception would be where she didn't know he was married.
However because he is the one with a spouse I believe he is the one committing a graver wrong.
Harriet
The married man is to blame in the first place.The reason being he knows he is married but still goes into starting an affair with another woman.
depends.
women get really naggy and bother the man, and the men are full of there self and think tehy dont have to do anything.
so i guess both :(
it really depends on the situation, women defiantly have an advantage over men as we are sluts. But if a man loves his wife he should know better so it is just as much his fault as hers.
If you want to cast blame....both of them plus the wife. There are always 3 people in an affair. If a guy is happy at home he wont ';stray';
definately both. it doesn't matter who ';started it'; that is kind of immature to use as an excuse. both people are responsible for their actions
The person to blame is the wife at home. If she was doing her job (making sure her husband is happy) he wouldn't persue another woman. And if another woman tried to persue him, he wouldn't acknowledge her attemps!
Uh...the one who initiated the cheating, obviously.
You have to see in two angles.
first, if a woman starting an affair
and if a man starting an affair
with married man and woman
first we take a woman. she is married and running a family with her husband who married her. if the same woman begins an affair with another man, it is purely fault on the side of woman. she not only having to start an illegal affair with another man and spoiling the smooth life of another man and also spoiling her family. This will bring sad and sorrow to both family for a pleasure of small hours. The life gone to dark to both. This is because of a woman. if the man is having good qualities, he might reject at the initial stage, but who will deny an opportunity is the matter. yes, there are persons who did not want to spoil their families.
at the same time, if a married man starting an illegal affair with a woman, the above said effect will come to both families. A nice woman will advice or reject and if she fell in the nett, the sad and sorrows are the result.
Both should realise their family, the children, the children's future, the respect in the society etc., if not realised the end will be worst.
but, when comparing the man and woman, the affected party is woman than man. if the approval given by a woman only, the man enters into the scene, so woman is more responsible for good and bad, because she is most affected than man. The man can escape and he may say some reasons which will be approved by the society, but woman's reasons are not acceptable by the society.
i blame the woman only. if she is careful and thinking of pros and cons, she will not think and enter into illegal affairs. The man is weak in sex and falling with attraction will be natural and therefore, i blame the woman only. This is my opinion.Do you blame the woman for starting an affair or the married man?
Actually, i would blame the wife and the husband not the ';mistress';.
Let's face it, if a man is cheating on his wife, then there are problems in the marriage that is causing the man to look elsewhere for what he is not getting at home. Most people are mistaken and think that married men cheat because they want sex. This is not true, married men usually cheat because their wives are acting in such a manner that it makes them crave affection and attention from other women.
This can be attributed to the man not telling his wife what is wrong, or the woman just not caring to understand men in general. Whatever the case may be the result is the same, the man ends up looking for a woman that will make himself feel good about himself. So in that aspect it is the wife that is to blame.
On the other hand, the man should either keep trying to tell his wife what is wrong. And if unsuccessful he should realize that it is time to end the marriage. Unfotunately most men for some reason don't end it, before looking for something else. So he is to blame.
You can't really blame it on the other woman quite simply, if the man was being treated right at home she would have no chance with the married man. And if the man had enough morals, there is nothing this other woman could do to get him to have an affair with her.
NOBODY IS RIGHT IN THE SITUATION, THEREFORE, BOTH THE MAN AND WOMAN INVOLVED IN THE AFFAIR ARE WRONG. HOWEVER, IF YOU WANT TO PLACE THE BLAME, THAT LIES DIRECTLY IN ON THE MARRIED INDIVIDUAL. IF A MAN CHEATS ON HIS WIFE, HE IS THE ONE CHEATING; NOT THE OTHER WOMAN. SHE HAS ABSOLUTELY NO OBLIGATION TO THE WIFE WHATSOEVER. HOW CAN ONE EXPECT MORE FROM A STRANGER THAN YOU DO THE PERSON WHO VOWED TO LOVE, CHERISH, AND RESPECT YOU TIL DEATH DO YOU PART. DON'T GET ME WRONG, MORALLY THE OTHER WOMAN OR MAN IS JUST AS WRONG BUT YOU CAN'T BLAME THEM FOR NOT RESPECTING A MARRIAGE THAT THEY HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO.
I HATE SEEING WOMEN MAD AT THE OTHER WOMAN. NEWSFLASH: YOUR HUSBANDS CHEATING ON YOU...NOT HER! HOW CAN YOU EXPECT MORE FROM A WOMAN THEN THE MAN WHO IS ACTUALLY MARRIED TO YOU?
You know, married women can cheat with single men too. It does go both ways. As for who's to blame, it all depends on the situation; it's not set in stone. Did the married person deceive the other into thinking they weren't married? And what if they're both married? Is only one at fault there? You can't just say someone's to blame if such-and-such is what happened. That's why we have a judicial system, as saying who's to blame for something is a case-by-case thing.
You're seriously not very intelligent, are you? If the guy, who's actually IN the committed relatonship, chooses to sleep around with a woman, it's the woman who's more to blame? Take it from a guy... we know what we're doing when unzip our pants. It's alway the person who does the cheating who committed the greater offense. Just because a woman enjoys sex and your man apparently enjoys giving it to her, doesn't mean she's a slut... it means your man wanted a piece of what she was offering and apparently doesn't care that much about you. LOL Think it through, please...
Well i blame the husband first off he is your husband he shouldn't be cheating on you. But it is the woman's fault to if she knows he is married i hate sl*ts that go after married men. My husband cheated on me with his sk*nk of an ex wife and she knows that we are married and her excuse is that she was married to him first well i told her she wasn't married to him anymore i was so back off! They both are sh*theads for doing what they did. I blame them both they both now better they are not stupid well maybe they are i guess.
fault is of both of them.
but y u guys r like blaming woman only. if he is with him ask him y he is havng another affair when he is married? i know every married man will blame that another woman in his life to destroy his marrieage but they dont have guts to accept that feeling that they were bored in their marriage so thay wanted to have smthng new. its not that that woman has destroyed this persons marriage but also that man has detroyed her whole life. think on that dude and b4 callilng sm1 these bad words know how come that woman is in that relationship than use these words.
My thinking on this is that if the man is married, it doesn't matter if a woman comes and wants him, he knows his responsibility and therefore should reject the offer.
My ex-husband had an affair, and I never blamed the girl. In fact, I kinda made friends with her and realised that she is just like me. So no, I don't blame her. She might have fallen in love with him, but it was his responsibility to say ';No';.
I blame the man because he is the one who has a commitment to another person. Even if the woman initiates, he is the one with the commitment and he is the one who should tell her to back off. She is not obligated to his wife, even though she is wrong, she has no obligation to her. The husband does. He said the vows.
No, the man! A ho is gonna be a ho, but he's the one who made the commitment, not the other woman. He's the one who is supposed to say ';Honey, there is something wrong with our relationship and I wanna work it out,'; instead of going, ';I gotta problem, lemme go make it better by cheating'; (which never makes it better)
BS!! Blame the woman...*shakes head* How typical of you. I blame both of them, woman to woman, she should know better, I agree. But the marriage must mean nothing to the man if he feels the need to be intimate with another female, knowing his wife would be devastatingly hurt. Always remember...it takes two to tango...!!!
this really is a load of BS you obviously have never been cheated on otherwise you would not come out with such drivel. We have all got minds of our own and are responsible for our own actions, also one of the first words we learn as a child is no, which seems to be forgotten in situations like this. I honestly think you do not know what you are talking about.
You blame the person that was suppose to be loyal to you. If my hubby every cheated, I'd be mad at the woman, but I would fault him cause his loyalty should be to me. She has no loyalties to me - she's just doing her (can't knock her for that)!
It matters not who is to blame as far as the person in your marriage and the person who is not is concerned. He's the one who is accountable to you. She is not.
They're both to blame and perhaps a small percentage on the spouses at home for doing whatever to cause their spouse to want to cheat.
Nobody is 100% innocent here and it takes everyone to have a good square dance.
its actually the fault of the husband for cheating,he destroyed the marriage, he made the choice to do it.other women really don't care they are seeking the kind of life the wife has.
Both are commiting adultry...a little more of the person who is married, whether that person is man or woman....they are comitting adultry AND breaking the vows they made to their spouse and to God.
The MAN is the one who took the marriage vows. The woman might be guilty of bad judgement for being with a married man, but the man is the one betraying his wife.
while the other woman is a certain ***** for her seductions or falling into his trap of seduction. it takes two. the married man and the sl*t will of course blame the wife.
Both parties are to blame for getting married... marriage is too permanent- so if you are gonna have affairs, just don't get married - if you expect the other do have affairs, then don't get married...
NOT both equally.
Blame the cheating hubby much more than the woman: 90 to 10.
Is the woman guilty of not caring about somebody else's wife? Yes, still guilty but much less than the hubby, who did not care about his OWN wife.
Both!
You can blame the guy for being a douche, and the woman for being a home wrecker at the same time.
Its everyones fault really.
I blame the guy...why? because I fell in love with a married man too...and I admit I flirt with him (well im not the only one) but we just ended up to be friends. Im so disappointed but I admire him more because I believe he really loves his family...
They're both at fault.
The only possible exception would be where she didn't know he was married.
However because he is the one with a spouse I believe he is the one committing a graver wrong.
Harriet
The married man is to blame in the first place.The reason being he knows he is married but still goes into starting an affair with another woman.
depends.
women get really naggy and bother the man, and the men are full of there self and think tehy dont have to do anything.
so i guess both :(
it really depends on the situation, women defiantly have an advantage over men as we are sluts. But if a man loves his wife he should know better so it is just as much his fault as hers.
If you want to cast blame....both of them plus the wife. There are always 3 people in an affair. If a guy is happy at home he wont ';stray';
definately both. it doesn't matter who ';started it'; that is kind of immature to use as an excuse. both people are responsible for their actions
The person to blame is the wife at home. If she was doing her job (making sure her husband is happy) he wouldn't persue another woman. And if another woman tried to persue him, he wouldn't acknowledge her attemps!
Uh...the one who initiated the cheating, obviously.
I know someone who married a guy who was in the states illegally, would he still be an Illegal Alien?
My daughter's friend married her boyfriend of 2 years. It was after they married she admitted he was in the States illegally. I do know they married for their love. But is he still considered to be in the States illegally?I know someone who married a guy who was in the states illegally, would he still be an Illegal Alien?
No unfortantely he does not get anything automatically.
My husband is the same situation. He was brought here at age 2 by his mom and he is now 22 years old. Luckily, there IS a process your daughter's friend can go through. But seeing that she did not even know he was illegal, I am not sure how she would feel about it. It is a lot of stress and work. BUT it does not have to be alot of $$. I am doing it on my own, no lawyer. It is complicated but it is also pretty straight-foward and I have an awesome support from the website www.immigrate2us.net you should have them check it out. Here is a link explaining the process -
http://immigrate2us.net/forum/showthread鈥?/a>
Since that can be a bit overwhelming here is a basic summary - the citizen will file the I-130 petition for alien spouse. She will need to prove her citizenship and the validity of the marriage (financial records, shared residence, pictures, etc.). Once this is approved, she will then need to show that she makes enough $$ to support him ( currently around 16k I believe for a 2 person family ) or she can get a co-sponsor who makes enough $$. After this, since he entered at the border and with no visa, his application will be sent to Mexico for processing at the consulate. He will be sent a notice for an appointment there in Cuidad Juarez, Mexico where the consulate is. He will go there and be denied the visa due to his illegal presence. He will be barred from entering the U.S. for TEN years. However they will then allow him (if he has no criminal record, drug use, etc. etc.) to file an I-601 waiver based on the fact that he is married to a U.S. citizen. The U.S. citizen has to prepare a waiver packet (prepared months in advance) filled with documents and evidence proving that her husband's denial would cause extreme hardship to her. They tend to look at factors such as health problems, potential loss of career and education if the citizen had to relocate to Mexico to be with her husband, etc. etc. But this process takes about 2 years and she will have a long time to prepare this. (That is why I was saying she has to be dedicated because it's a long process). The good thing is that after it is approved he can become a citizen in only 3 short years. And they can put all of this behind them.
Also, if they know what they are doing and can handle it then it is better to NOT use a lawyer. They can often give bad advice and write bad waiver packets. If either of them is the type that got good grades in school and is good at research papers they should do it on their own.. However if they aren't good at writing then they should CAREFULLY select a competent lawyer. I suggest checking the site below for references.I know someone who married a guy who was in the states illegally, would he still be an Illegal Alien?
He is not legal!!! They must file for his papers immediately! He can be deported for anything so be careful! You may want to see (consult) an immigration lawyer. You can file his papers yourself but you will still have to wait for his appointment in his country! The whole process can take a lot of time and money. Best wishes!!!
Since he is an illegal who came to America illegally he is quite possibly entitled to more than his wife who was living and residing here legally, thanks to the US Congress! Your daughters friend is the one that needs to worry as legally residing residents have less rights than illegally residing individuals!
Yes he's still considered an illegal immigrant. She can file for him but it's a very long and stressful process.
Here is a very good article:
http://immigrate2us.net/forum/showthread鈥?/a>
I wish her luck with everything.
I believe he can apply for a green card if he is married to a US Citizen
Yes he is here illegally. That is some marriage if he didn't tell her until after the wedding.
As others have written, marriage does not give any immigration status automatically. If this young man had entered the US through normal inspection, he would be allowed to adjust status and get a green card even if he had let his legal status lapse. However, since he entered without inspection he can't do that. The wife must petition for him (here is the process http://www.uscis.gov/files/article/A1.pd鈥?/a> when the petition is approved, it will be sent to the US embassy or consulate that she specifies. Then he will have to apply for an immigrant visa there. If he has spent more than six months illegally in the US after his 18th birthday, he could be barred from returning for three or ten years. Here is the law:
212(A)(9) (B) ALIENS UNLAWFULLY PRESENT.-
(i) In general.-Any alien (other than an alien lawfully admitted for permanent residence) who-
(I) was unlawfully present in the United States for a period of more than 180 days but less than 1 year, voluntarily departed the United States (whether or not pursuant to section 244(e) ) prior to the commencement of proceedings under section 235(b)(1) or section 240 , and again seeks admission within 3 years of the date of such alien's departure or removal, or
(II) has been unlawfully present in the United States for one year or more, and who again seeks admission within 10 years of the date of such alien's departure or removal from the United States,is inadmissible.
(ii) Construction of unlawful presence.-For purposes of this paragraph, an alien is deemed to be unlawfully present in the United States if the alien is present in the United States after the expiration of the period of stay authorized by the Attorney General or is present in the United States without being admitted or paroled.
(iii) Exceptions.-
(I) Minors.-No period of time in which an alien is under 18 years of age shall be taken into account in determining the period of unlawful presence in the United States under clause (I).
As you can see, the good news is that he only began to accumulate illegal presence after his 18th birthday.
He should maybe get a good immigration lawyer and work it out with the authorities. It's not his fault he's in the States, he didn't have much say as a 5 year old! It's his home now. He wouldn't remember much else.
He is illegal, he must go through the same process as all immigrants.
yes he is deportable and even with kids he is deportable.i am dealing with the same issue right now with my b/f.she needs to start his papers like right now.contact a lawyer or you can do it yourself at http://www.uscis.com/
Yes, he still is not a legal immigrant because he got married.
Absolutely. And if he is deported he will never be legal in America so you had better tell him to get out of the United States of America now.
marriage does not absolve crimes. If it did, murderers would just get married and all the problems would go away. Illegal is illegal and marriage will not change that fact. Good grief.
Yes he's still considered an illegal immigrant
I think,he is just now considered as illegal only.
If you want,you can apply for the green card for him...they're(as you say) in real love...so that would be nice if that guy is helped...if your daughter's friend is a {legal}Citizen of the state then no problem,as they're married they can show their marriage certificate as a proof and can apply for the green card...
No unfortantely he does not get anything automatically.
My husband is the same situation. He was brought here at age 2 by his mom and he is now 22 years old. Luckily, there IS a process your daughter's friend can go through. But seeing that she did not even know he was illegal, I am not sure how she would feel about it. It is a lot of stress and work. BUT it does not have to be alot of $$. I am doing it on my own, no lawyer. It is complicated but it is also pretty straight-foward and I have an awesome support from the website www.immigrate2us.net you should have them check it out. Here is a link explaining the process -
http://immigrate2us.net/forum/showthread鈥?/a>
Since that can be a bit overwhelming here is a basic summary - the citizen will file the I-130 petition for alien spouse. She will need to prove her citizenship and the validity of the marriage (financial records, shared residence, pictures, etc.). Once this is approved, she will then need to show that she makes enough $$ to support him ( currently around 16k I believe for a 2 person family ) or she can get a co-sponsor who makes enough $$. After this, since he entered at the border and with no visa, his application will be sent to Mexico for processing at the consulate. He will be sent a notice for an appointment there in Cuidad Juarez, Mexico where the consulate is. He will go there and be denied the visa due to his illegal presence. He will be barred from entering the U.S. for TEN years. However they will then allow him (if he has no criminal record, drug use, etc. etc.) to file an I-601 waiver based on the fact that he is married to a U.S. citizen. The U.S. citizen has to prepare a waiver packet (prepared months in advance) filled with documents and evidence proving that her husband's denial would cause extreme hardship to her. They tend to look at factors such as health problems, potential loss of career and education if the citizen had to relocate to Mexico to be with her husband, etc. etc. But this process takes about 2 years and she will have a long time to prepare this. (That is why I was saying she has to be dedicated because it's a long process). The good thing is that after it is approved he can become a citizen in only 3 short years. And they can put all of this behind them.
Also, if they know what they are doing and can handle it then it is better to NOT use a lawyer. They can often give bad advice and write bad waiver packets. If either of them is the type that got good grades in school and is good at research papers they should do it on their own.. However if they aren't good at writing then they should CAREFULLY select a competent lawyer. I suggest checking the site below for references.I know someone who married a guy who was in the states illegally, would he still be an Illegal Alien?
He is not legal!!! They must file for his papers immediately! He can be deported for anything so be careful! You may want to see (consult) an immigration lawyer. You can file his papers yourself but you will still have to wait for his appointment in his country! The whole process can take a lot of time and money. Best wishes!!!
Since he is an illegal who came to America illegally he is quite possibly entitled to more than his wife who was living and residing here legally, thanks to the US Congress! Your daughters friend is the one that needs to worry as legally residing residents have less rights than illegally residing individuals!
Yes he's still considered an illegal immigrant. She can file for him but it's a very long and stressful process.
Here is a very good article:
http://immigrate2us.net/forum/showthread鈥?/a>
I wish her luck with everything.
I believe he can apply for a green card if he is married to a US Citizen
Yes he is here illegally. That is some marriage if he didn't tell her until after the wedding.
As others have written, marriage does not give any immigration status automatically. If this young man had entered the US through normal inspection, he would be allowed to adjust status and get a green card even if he had let his legal status lapse. However, since he entered without inspection he can't do that. The wife must petition for him (here is the process http://www.uscis.gov/files/article/A1.pd鈥?/a> when the petition is approved, it will be sent to the US embassy or consulate that she specifies. Then he will have to apply for an immigrant visa there. If he has spent more than six months illegally in the US after his 18th birthday, he could be barred from returning for three or ten years. Here is the law:
212(A)(9) (B) ALIENS UNLAWFULLY PRESENT.-
(i) In general.-Any alien (other than an alien lawfully admitted for permanent residence) who-
(I) was unlawfully present in the United States for a period of more than 180 days but less than 1 year, voluntarily departed the United States (whether or not pursuant to section 244(e) ) prior to the commencement of proceedings under section 235(b)(1) or section 240 , and again seeks admission within 3 years of the date of such alien's departure or removal, or
(II) has been unlawfully present in the United States for one year or more, and who again seeks admission within 10 years of the date of such alien's departure or removal from the United States,is inadmissible.
(ii) Construction of unlawful presence.-For purposes of this paragraph, an alien is deemed to be unlawfully present in the United States if the alien is present in the United States after the expiration of the period of stay authorized by the Attorney General or is present in the United States without being admitted or paroled.
(iii) Exceptions.-
(I) Minors.-No period of time in which an alien is under 18 years of age shall be taken into account in determining the period of unlawful presence in the United States under clause (I).
As you can see, the good news is that he only began to accumulate illegal presence after his 18th birthday.
He should maybe get a good immigration lawyer and work it out with the authorities. It's not his fault he's in the States, he didn't have much say as a 5 year old! It's his home now. He wouldn't remember much else.
He is illegal, he must go through the same process as all immigrants.
yes he is deportable and even with kids he is deportable.i am dealing with the same issue right now with my b/f.she needs to start his papers like right now.contact a lawyer or you can do it yourself at http://www.uscis.com/
Yes, he still is not a legal immigrant because he got married.
Absolutely. And if he is deported he will never be legal in America so you had better tell him to get out of the United States of America now.
marriage does not absolve crimes. If it did, murderers would just get married and all the problems would go away. Illegal is illegal and marriage will not change that fact. Good grief.
Yes he's still considered an illegal immigrant
I think,he is just now considered as illegal only.
If you want,you can apply for the green card for him...they're(as you say) in real love...so that would be nice if that guy is helped...if your daughter's friend is a {legal}Citizen of the state then no problem,as they're married they can show their marriage certificate as a proof and can apply for the green card...
Have you ever found yourself strangely attracted to someone who was married?
even though you would never cheat with them, that is.Have you ever found yourself strangely attracted to someone who was married?
Yes. I had a huge crush on a man I worked with who was married. I never did anything about it though. A while later him and his wife split up, and he started coming on to me, (i think he knew I had a crush on him). But after he was available I started to realize that I really did not like him that much after all. He wasn't my type. Guess it was something about knowing I couldn't have him that made him more desirable or something.Have you ever found yourself strangely attracted to someone who was married?
My husbands Best Friend is Polish is married and has a son and is very hot..He has that sexy polish accent.
My husband is also hot and I would never cheat on him EVER.
';strangely'; attracted? Can you elaborate?
Of course! It's what you do about it that determines your character.
Yep. But I of course didn't act on it.
Yes. I had a huge crush on a man I worked with who was married. I never did anything about it though. A while later him and his wife split up, and he started coming on to me, (i think he knew I had a crush on him). But after he was available I started to realize that I really did not like him that much after all. He wasn't my type. Guess it was something about knowing I couldn't have him that made him more desirable or something.Have you ever found yourself strangely attracted to someone who was married?
My husbands Best Friend is Polish is married and has a son and is very hot..He has that sexy polish accent.
My husband is also hot and I would never cheat on him EVER.
';strangely'; attracted? Can you elaborate?
Of course! It's what you do about it that determines your character.
Yep. But I of course didn't act on it.
Is there a certain amount of time you have to be married before you are able to file taxes together?
If you are thinking about getting married tonight or tomorrow, you should have a romantic session of estimating the tax consequences.
If your incomes are roughly equal and you don't itemize deductions, the tax consequences should be negligible.
If there is a large gap between your incomes, there will be tax savings because some of the higher income will be taxed at a lower rate.
If one of you itemizes and the other doesn't hold off until tomorrow because married couples have to do things the same way so the combined deductions will go down.Is there a certain amount of time you have to be married before you are able to file taxes together?
You can get married today, Dec 31, 2007 and file ';Married Filing Jointly';. The key date is Dec 31st of every year ';What is your martial status as of Dec 31st?';Is there a certain amount of time you have to be married before you are able to file taxes together?
Not at all. As long as you married within the year, you claim for the entire year. Conversely, if you divorce on the last day of the year, you can't claim marriage for the entire year.
However, when it comes to children, you can claim a newborn (or newly adopted child) for the entire year, but if you have stepchildren, or you attain guardianship, you can only claim them if you have them for more than half the year.
No, as long as you are married on 12/31 or before, you can file a joint return for the year.
Yep! One second -- 11:59:59 PM on New Year's Eve. Or earlier.
before the new year starts like it would not be good to marry today and expect a large come back.
Nope, just have to be married before midnight tonight.
Instantly
Nope! If you were to wed 12/31 @ 11:59, then you would be required to file married on your taxes for 2007.
If your incomes are roughly equal and you don't itemize deductions, the tax consequences should be negligible.
If there is a large gap between your incomes, there will be tax savings because some of the higher income will be taxed at a lower rate.
If one of you itemizes and the other doesn't hold off until tomorrow because married couples have to do things the same way so the combined deductions will go down.Is there a certain amount of time you have to be married before you are able to file taxes together?
You can get married today, Dec 31, 2007 and file ';Married Filing Jointly';. The key date is Dec 31st of every year ';What is your martial status as of Dec 31st?';Is there a certain amount of time you have to be married before you are able to file taxes together?
Not at all. As long as you married within the year, you claim for the entire year. Conversely, if you divorce on the last day of the year, you can't claim marriage for the entire year.
However, when it comes to children, you can claim a newborn (or newly adopted child) for the entire year, but if you have stepchildren, or you attain guardianship, you can only claim them if you have them for more than half the year.
No, as long as you are married on 12/31 or before, you can file a joint return for the year.
Yep! One second -- 11:59:59 PM on New Year's Eve. Or earlier.
before the new year starts like it would not be good to marry today and expect a large come back.
Nope, just have to be married before midnight tonight.
Instantly
Nope! If you were to wed 12/31 @ 11:59, then you would be required to file married on your taxes for 2007.
How much is a married couple getting with the stimulius package?
about 65.00 a monthHow much is a married couple getting with the stimulius package?
If you received the maximum amount last year ($1200), then you won't receive anything for 2008.
If you received less than the maximum based on last year's income but you would qualify for more based on this year's income, then the extra will be added to your refund.
For 2009, a working couple qualifies for $800, but it will come a little at a time added to each paycheck.
If you received the maximum amount last year ($1200), then you won't receive anything for 2008.
If you received less than the maximum based on last year's income but you would qualify for more based on this year's income, then the extra will be added to your refund.
For 2009, a working couple qualifies for $800, but it will come a little at a time added to each paycheck.
Can you be legally married to two people? Which marriage is legal?
My husband of 16 years recently passed away. We had separated while he was in prison. While he was in prison he remarried. We never divorced. Now the new wife is applying for Social Security which will take away from my kids. Is he legally married to her if him and I never divorced? Can you be legally married to two people? Which marriage is legal?
No, his second marriage is not legal. If you have minor children, they take priority over the second wife to receive his SS benefits anyway... even if you were divorced. Just call the SS office and let them know the situation. They'll work it all out.Can you be legally married to two people? Which marriage is legal?
If you have a marriage certificate and can prove you 2 were still married upon his death as well there's no divorce decree on file then no his marriage to her isn't legal. Did she know he was still married to you? In any event I don't think she has any legal grounds to do anything or be entitled to anything but to be on the safe side I'd consult a lawyer.
That ladies marriage is INVALID . You can not get married in the USA , unless you are LEGALLY divorced . See your local District Attorney , and don't worry , you have the law behind you
That is absolutely illegal in our country USA. You need to report this ';second marriage'; and get that straightened out right away.
He is legally married to you. The second marriage doesn't count. I'd get a lawyer before she starts getting his Social Security.
No. You are the legal wife and his second marriage is not recognized as legal.
If you never got divorced then your marriage is the legal one.
Talk to a lawyer. I think if he's still married to you then his marriage to her is not valid.
no and the first one is the legal one!
He is legally married to you, not to her.
no.the legal marrige is when one gets married to another of the opposite sex
Your marriage is legal, hers is not.
Nope you are his legal wife.
Of course you are legally married and shes not duh
No he isn't. Contact social security and tell them what's going on.
I don't know, but get with an attorney quickly!!
no he is not and he can't do thislotion cream
No, his second marriage is not legal. If you have minor children, they take priority over the second wife to receive his SS benefits anyway... even if you were divorced. Just call the SS office and let them know the situation. They'll work it all out.Can you be legally married to two people? Which marriage is legal?
If you have a marriage certificate and can prove you 2 were still married upon his death as well there's no divorce decree on file then no his marriage to her isn't legal. Did she know he was still married to you? In any event I don't think she has any legal grounds to do anything or be entitled to anything but to be on the safe side I'd consult a lawyer.
That ladies marriage is INVALID . You can not get married in the USA , unless you are LEGALLY divorced . See your local District Attorney , and don't worry , you have the law behind you
That is absolutely illegal in our country USA. You need to report this ';second marriage'; and get that straightened out right away.
He is legally married to you. The second marriage doesn't count. I'd get a lawyer before she starts getting his Social Security.
No. You are the legal wife and his second marriage is not recognized as legal.
If you never got divorced then your marriage is the legal one.
Talk to a lawyer. I think if he's still married to you then his marriage to her is not valid.
no and the first one is the legal one!
He is legally married to you, not to her.
no.the legal marrige is when one gets married to another of the opposite sex
Your marriage is legal, hers is not.
Nope you are his legal wife.
Of course you are legally married and shes not duh
No he isn't. Contact social security and tell them what's going on.
I don't know, but get with an attorney quickly!!
no he is not and he can't do this
How can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
How can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
i know it is possible
nothing is impossible okay
but the question is ?
Is he worth marrying?
i am 18 yrs old female from canada
origin: east indian
height 5-4
eyes: greenHow can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
do a hocos pocus on himHow can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
lol. well judging from the tabloids, hes into hookers and stuff like that. so probably doesnt have standards. but you never know how people on tv REALLY are. i wouldnt say it is impossible but it is extremely unlikely. but he is really hot. : )
thanks for the two points.
hehe, thats funny! the dude is like pretty fine and stuff but wow! what a question! i dnt mean it in a bad way but thats a kinda funny question! try going to the soccer games that he plays in and i guees by front row tickets?
Hope that helped!
I'm fairly certain Ronaldo is gay. Try Fernando Torres from Liverpool. He's a young up and comer.
go to all his games and make yourself noticeable. Good Luck
start playing with balls
i know it is possible
nothing is impossible okay
but the question is ?
Is he worth marrying?
i am 18 yrs old female from canada
origin: east indian
height 5-4
eyes: greenHow can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
do a hocos pocus on himHow can i get married to cristiano ronaldo( soccer player ) in future?
lol. well judging from the tabloids, hes into hookers and stuff like that. so probably doesnt have standards. but you never know how people on tv REALLY are. i wouldnt say it is impossible but it is extremely unlikely. but he is really hot. : )
thanks for the two points.
hehe, thats funny! the dude is like pretty fine and stuff but wow! what a question! i dnt mean it in a bad way but thats a kinda funny question! try going to the soccer games that he plays in and i guees by front row tickets?
Hope that helped!
I'm fairly certain Ronaldo is gay. Try Fernando Torres from Liverpool. He's a young up and comer.
go to all his games and make yourself noticeable. Good Luck
start playing with balls
What should a USMC officer should wear when he is getting married?
Well my cousin is getting married and he told me he wants to wear a tuxedo instead, could he do that???What Dress uniform should he wear???
-Just curiousWhat should a USMC officer should wear when he is getting married?
A smart Marine officer will defer to his bride on this and wear whatever she wishes. That said, dress blue is nice and would not be improper on such an occasion. Maybe he can get some fellow Marines to form an arch of swords too. Very classy and his bride will remember it always. (as will he )What should a USMC officer should wear when he is getting married?
Being that it is a special occasion, he is authorized to wear his military dress uniform if he chooses to (Dress Blues most likely). He is not required to do so. He may also wear appropriate civilian attire.
his dress blues
Class A...not the charlies...
USMC Dress Blues-here are some pics of a Marine wedding.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/moacirdsp/457478770/in/photostream/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/moacirdsp/459841669/in/photostream/
There is nothing that says he HAS to wear his dress blues for the wedding, so he can wear a tux if he wants to. As an officer, he's probably working on a career in the USMC... so wearing the dress blues wouldn't seem like such a big deal to him as it does to women... who love men in uniform!!
If his fiance doesn't mind him wearing a tux, then you shoudn't either.
Your cousin can wear a tux if he wants, or anything else for that matter. It is his wedding not a military function.
USMC dress blues beat the tar out of a tux any day! you could make an ugly man look good in them! Whew gotta love a marine in his blues!
-Just curiousWhat should a USMC officer should wear when he is getting married?
A smart Marine officer will defer to his bride on this and wear whatever she wishes. That said, dress blue is nice and would not be improper on such an occasion. Maybe he can get some fellow Marines to form an arch of swords too. Very classy and his bride will remember it always. (as will he )What should a USMC officer should wear when he is getting married?
Being that it is a special occasion, he is authorized to wear his military dress uniform if he chooses to (Dress Blues most likely). He is not required to do so. He may also wear appropriate civilian attire.
his dress blues
Class A...not the charlies...
USMC Dress Blues-here are some pics of a Marine wedding.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/moacirdsp/457478770/in/photostream/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/moacirdsp/459841669/in/photostream/
There is nothing that says he HAS to wear his dress blues for the wedding, so he can wear a tux if he wants to. As an officer, he's probably working on a career in the USMC... so wearing the dress blues wouldn't seem like such a big deal to him as it does to women... who love men in uniform!!
If his fiance doesn't mind him wearing a tux, then you shoudn't either.
Your cousin can wear a tux if he wants, or anything else for that matter. It is his wedding not a military function.
USMC dress blues beat the tar out of a tux any day! you could make an ugly man look good in them! Whew gotta love a marine in his blues!
What does it mean when people say, ';It is bad karma'; when you cheat on your husband while you are married?
Having an affair on the sided......Is it bad karma on the person that is treating on the husband (or vice versa) or bad karma on the lover that she sleeps with ?What does it mean when people say, ';It is bad karma'; when you cheat on your husband while you are married?
i believe anyone who was involved in the hurting of another, be it the other man or woman will eventually get the pain back sometimes in the same way they gave it out. my ex husband left me for the other woman, it totally devastated me. now i hear they are having severe problems, the business they started never worked out, all the things they begun together did not work out. the life she was promised she never got. i would believe that both parties involved in hurting that spouse will suffer eventually and nothing they try works out.What does it mean when people say, ';It is bad karma'; when you cheat on your husband while you are married?
KARMA MEANS - WORK, DUTY, DESCIPLINE, FAITH %26amp; TRUST
KARMA MEANS - WORK WITHOUT HURTING ANY ONE
KARMA MEANS - ANOTHER FORM OF GOD
KARMA MEANS - RESULT OF WORK, LIKE A BARO METER OF LIFE WHERE YOU STAND TODAY.
KARMA HAS NO LINK SLEEPING WITH SOME ONE'S WIFE OR HUSBAND. BUT IT IS CERTAINLY NOT GOOD KARMA. IN ANOTHER WORD ITS A BAD KARMA FOR ANY RELIGION, HUMAN OR NATIONALS - NOT ACCEPTED BY UNIVERSE.
A HUMAN CAN BEHAVE LIKE AN ANIMAL DUE TO LACK OF COMMON SENSE, BY NATURE OR BAD DIDS WHICH REFLECTS IN LIFE BECAUSE OF KARMA.
HUMAN CAN ADOPT ANIMAL'S LIFE BUT ANIMALS CAN NOT GATHER SENSE TO BEHAVE LIKE HUMAN. THIS IS THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A HUMAN %26amp; ANIMAL.
ANY NORMAL HUMAN ON EARTH CAN BECOME GOD BY WAY OF GOOD KARMA. BUT NOT BY SLEEPING WITH SOME ONE'S WIFE.
It means what goes around comes around. Karma is essentially based on treating others as you wish to be treated... and karma is more or less the silent watch dog of that idea. I feel it is based on any negative intentions, actions, or ill-wishing.
Example: I guy I was dating cheated on me, and knocked the gal up. He said ';she was a model'; and was ';more suited for him.'; She was in the wrong just as he was because she knew he was in a relationship. Anyway, their bad karma was: On their wedding day, he left her standing at the alter and never followed through with the wedding. They are still together though, and now she weighs about 50 lbs more.... and can't seem to shed it.
This may be trivial to most, but these issues were devastating to him and her.
It means the person doing the cheating (the cheater) will have bad Karma.
Ex: Bob and Kathy are married. Bob Cheats on Kathy with Sandra. Bob gets bad Karma. Bob will get cheated on by his future wife.
Through the law of karma, the effects of all deeds actively create past, present, and future experiences, thus making one responsible for one's own life, and the pain and joy it brings to him/her and others.
Karma basically means your destiny. What we do in this life is rewarded in the next, is the belief. Therefore if one committs adultary, they can look forward to being punished for this sin in this life or the next, by an equal amount of punishment sort of speak. It will affect everyone involved. It will be bad for the ones who committ this sin and good for the one the sin is committed against.particular
it means you will suffer for your misdeeds. its buddhist/ hindusim belief. basically its 'what goes around comes around'
its both parties of the affair gets it because buddhists believe in not harming others with sexual activity. and while not directly cheating on someone you still affect the persons other partner
hence bad karma and more suffering in the next life [ for the both of them ]
Oh that's easy.
Both people suffer really. First you've got your conscience eternally nagging you because you're a damn cheater (even if there reasons). Then if the SO finds out, you've either got trust issues or a completely wrecked marriage. Then when you meet somebody else, and they asked if you've ever cheated, you either get to explain what happened, and give a bad impression, or lie, which makes you a liar and then you get to deal with *that* karma etc etc can you see how it kind of snowballs?
If you're the single party, subtract ';screw up your marriage'; and add ';live in fear of the wronged party or their friends getting terrible revenge';.
it doesnt have to be with your spouse, it could be anything.
i believe in karma, because when karma strike, you'll never know when its going to hit you. it's 20X fold..
for example, you're a guy and have a first daughter and when you were single you liked to play with womans feelings so they said that god have you a daughter to pay for all your sins you have done to all the women you have hurt. your daughter is the one who will suffer
that's just what i've heard from an old tale
It is an unknown factor.So an unknown person can easily make this question.not only the woman but the man also be blamed for this karma.
Whatever we think or say about it every husband and wife is always well known to each other.
I think people have crappy days whether its related to your affair or something totally unrelated. Bad karma is just guilt and superstition combined.. and you should probably aslo stop the affair if you don't want to risk it blowing up in your face later
';Bad Karma'; applies to anyone who is knowingly doing wrong.
The Cheater...clearly getting bad karma...the cheater's partner, on the other hand, would have to know they are fooling aroung with someone who is attached to get ';bad karma';.
Karma won't come right away after you did something bad to your bf/spouse but as the right time comes it will. All you have to do now in order to avoid the karma is to do the right thing which you think is right.
yes what goes around comes around why would
you do that to ur husband anyway??,u should have gotten a divorce first,and in the Bible thou shall not commit adultery
I think the meaning means that cheaters beget cheaters. If you cheat on someone then they might be cheating on you.
What you give is what you get in return! You'll get yours in the end.
the one that is cheatin has the bad karma
it means what comes around goes around
its bad karma on the person cheating on her husband. what comes around goes around
it means get a divorce first.
i believe anyone who was involved in the hurting of another, be it the other man or woman will eventually get the pain back sometimes in the same way they gave it out. my ex husband left me for the other woman, it totally devastated me. now i hear they are having severe problems, the business they started never worked out, all the things they begun together did not work out. the life she was promised she never got. i would believe that both parties involved in hurting that spouse will suffer eventually and nothing they try works out.What does it mean when people say, ';It is bad karma'; when you cheat on your husband while you are married?
KARMA MEANS - WORK, DUTY, DESCIPLINE, FAITH %26amp; TRUST
KARMA MEANS - WORK WITHOUT HURTING ANY ONE
KARMA MEANS - ANOTHER FORM OF GOD
KARMA MEANS - RESULT OF WORK, LIKE A BARO METER OF LIFE WHERE YOU STAND TODAY.
KARMA HAS NO LINK SLEEPING WITH SOME ONE'S WIFE OR HUSBAND. BUT IT IS CERTAINLY NOT GOOD KARMA. IN ANOTHER WORD ITS A BAD KARMA FOR ANY RELIGION, HUMAN OR NATIONALS - NOT ACCEPTED BY UNIVERSE.
A HUMAN CAN BEHAVE LIKE AN ANIMAL DUE TO LACK OF COMMON SENSE, BY NATURE OR BAD DIDS WHICH REFLECTS IN LIFE BECAUSE OF KARMA.
HUMAN CAN ADOPT ANIMAL'S LIFE BUT ANIMALS CAN NOT GATHER SENSE TO BEHAVE LIKE HUMAN. THIS IS THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A HUMAN %26amp; ANIMAL.
ANY NORMAL HUMAN ON EARTH CAN BECOME GOD BY WAY OF GOOD KARMA. BUT NOT BY SLEEPING WITH SOME ONE'S WIFE.
It means what goes around comes around. Karma is essentially based on treating others as you wish to be treated... and karma is more or less the silent watch dog of that idea. I feel it is based on any negative intentions, actions, or ill-wishing.
Example: I guy I was dating cheated on me, and knocked the gal up. He said ';she was a model'; and was ';more suited for him.'; She was in the wrong just as he was because she knew he was in a relationship. Anyway, their bad karma was: On their wedding day, he left her standing at the alter and never followed through with the wedding. They are still together though, and now she weighs about 50 lbs more.... and can't seem to shed it.
This may be trivial to most, but these issues were devastating to him and her.
It means the person doing the cheating (the cheater) will have bad Karma.
Ex: Bob and Kathy are married. Bob Cheats on Kathy with Sandra. Bob gets bad Karma. Bob will get cheated on by his future wife.
Through the law of karma, the effects of all deeds actively create past, present, and future experiences, thus making one responsible for one's own life, and the pain and joy it brings to him/her and others.
Karma basically means your destiny. What we do in this life is rewarded in the next, is the belief. Therefore if one committs adultary, they can look forward to being punished for this sin in this life or the next, by an equal amount of punishment sort of speak. It will affect everyone involved. It will be bad for the ones who committ this sin and good for the one the sin is committed against.particular
it means you will suffer for your misdeeds. its buddhist/ hindusim belief. basically its 'what goes around comes around'
its both parties of the affair gets it because buddhists believe in not harming others with sexual activity. and while not directly cheating on someone you still affect the persons other partner
hence bad karma and more suffering in the next life [ for the both of them ]
Oh that's easy.
Both people suffer really. First you've got your conscience eternally nagging you because you're a damn cheater (even if there reasons). Then if the SO finds out, you've either got trust issues or a completely wrecked marriage. Then when you meet somebody else, and they asked if you've ever cheated, you either get to explain what happened, and give a bad impression, or lie, which makes you a liar and then you get to deal with *that* karma etc etc can you see how it kind of snowballs?
If you're the single party, subtract ';screw up your marriage'; and add ';live in fear of the wronged party or their friends getting terrible revenge';.
it doesnt have to be with your spouse, it could be anything.
i believe in karma, because when karma strike, you'll never know when its going to hit you. it's 20X fold..
for example, you're a guy and have a first daughter and when you were single you liked to play with womans feelings so they said that god have you a daughter to pay for all your sins you have done to all the women you have hurt. your daughter is the one who will suffer
that's just what i've heard from an old tale
It is an unknown factor.So an unknown person can easily make this question.not only the woman but the man also be blamed for this karma.
Whatever we think or say about it every husband and wife is always well known to each other.
I think people have crappy days whether its related to your affair or something totally unrelated. Bad karma is just guilt and superstition combined.. and you should probably aslo stop the affair if you don't want to risk it blowing up in your face later
';Bad Karma'; applies to anyone who is knowingly doing wrong.
The Cheater...clearly getting bad karma...the cheater's partner, on the other hand, would have to know they are fooling aroung with someone who is attached to get ';bad karma';.
Karma won't come right away after you did something bad to your bf/spouse but as the right time comes it will. All you have to do now in order to avoid the karma is to do the right thing which you think is right.
yes what goes around comes around why would
you do that to ur husband anyway??,u should have gotten a divorce first,and in the Bible thou shall not commit adultery
I think the meaning means that cheaters beget cheaters. If you cheat on someone then they might be cheating on you.
What you give is what you get in return! You'll get yours in the end.
the one that is cheatin has the bad karma
it means what comes around goes around
its bad karma on the person cheating on her husband. what comes around goes around
it means get a divorce first.
Can anyone tell me how my fiance who lives in palestine and i in UK get married without him being in UK?
I live in the Uk and My fiance lives in Palestine and we long to marry each other . We are looking for a Solution to our problem . We have already had a virtual wedding but we are looking for something legally binding .Can anyone tell me how my fiance who lives in palestine and i in UK get married without him being in UK?
Can you not take a holiday to Palestine or he take a holiday to the UK? All you need is a visa and then a marriage license.Can anyone tell me how my fiance who lives in palestine and i in UK get married without him being in UK?
My brother almost had to have someone stand in for him at his wedding as he was in the Navy and his ship was delayed in returning. They had made plans to have his best friend fill in for him, or be his proxy, so you might check into that. Luckily, his ship did end up coming in 2 days before the wedding!
Can you not take a holiday to Palestine or he take a holiday to the UK? All you need is a visa and then a marriage license.Can anyone tell me how my fiance who lives in palestine and i in UK get married without him being in UK?
My brother almost had to have someone stand in for him at his wedding as he was in the Navy and his ship was delayed in returning. They had made plans to have his best friend fill in for him, or be his proxy, so you might check into that. Luckily, his ship did end up coming in 2 days before the wedding!
Are Nigerian men controlling once they you are married to them?
I am planing on marrying a Nigerian man who seems to be the most loving and attentive man I have ever met but I have been told that once we are married this will all change.Are Nigerian men controlling once they you are married to them?
Not all, depends. If hes much older than you he has that kind of 'african sense'. You should expect the change in behaviour if his much older than you.
My parents are Nigerian, lol my mum said everything changed after they got married, then again they have been together for over 22 years and still going 'strong'.
Just make sure you have known him for long before you decide to tie the knot.Are Nigerian men controlling once they you are married to them?
Why do you care what other people think? If you have to ask this question, maybe you need to question why you are marrying him in the first place. I don't know what kind of relationship or understanding you have with him, but if he is truly the way you just described him, other peoples opinion should not matter. Maybe its what they know, but it may not be true of your future husband.
Its has been said and written that Nigerian men can be dominating and controlling, but that can be true of all men, no matter what their ethnicity is.
Read the article listed below that someone posted about Nigerian men marrying African American women, it was posted 2 years ago, but I found it interesting to read. Keep in mind that this a personal opinion, and not facts! I don't know what your race is, but it doesn't matter, this article can apply to any race!
Follow your heart!
Some but not all my father was never controlling towards my mother.
women please answer mine:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
You should do him a favor and not marry this man.
Not all, depends. If hes much older than you he has that kind of 'african sense'. You should expect the change in behaviour if his much older than you.
My parents are Nigerian, lol my mum said everything changed after they got married, then again they have been together for over 22 years and still going 'strong'.
Just make sure you have known him for long before you decide to tie the knot.Are Nigerian men controlling once they you are married to them?
Why do you care what other people think? If you have to ask this question, maybe you need to question why you are marrying him in the first place. I don't know what kind of relationship or understanding you have with him, but if he is truly the way you just described him, other peoples opinion should not matter. Maybe its what they know, but it may not be true of your future husband.
Its has been said and written that Nigerian men can be dominating and controlling, but that can be true of all men, no matter what their ethnicity is.
Read the article listed below that someone posted about Nigerian men marrying African American women, it was posted 2 years ago, but I found it interesting to read. Keep in mind that this a personal opinion, and not facts! I don't know what your race is, but it doesn't matter, this article can apply to any race!
Follow your heart!
Some but not all my father was never controlling towards my mother.
women please answer mine:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
You should do him a favor and not marry this man.
In california how is it possible for a 17 and a 14 year old to get married what are the rules and regulations?
The male is 17 the female is 14 and they want to get married with only the males parents concentIn california how is it possible for a 17 and a 14 year old to get married what are the rules and regulations?
All the parents have to consent.In california how is it possible for a 17 and a 14 year old to get married what are the rules and regulations?
Not possible
not possible anywhere in the US.
No way for these two to get married in California. Only in certain states can anyone below 18 get married. Do not listen to the people saying you need both parents' consent--that may be true in other states but not California.
not legal
it takes the concent of both parents and whoever this 17 yr old is just let you know will be 18 and that is called against the law and her parents can turn you in wait if it is real it is worth waiting for
What is the minimum age a man or woman may marry?
You must be 18 years old or older to marry without parental consent. A birth certificate may be necessary to show proof of age.
What if one or both of us is younger than 18?
If either partner is under 18, one parent or legal guardian must be present. If a parent can not be present, due to death, separation, divorce or other circumstances, proper evidence must be presented for verification. You will need a certified copy of your birth certificate. The couple must schedule an appointment with a counselor and then appear before a superior court judge.
Check out the below link
Here is California law on the subject of who may marry and the age restrictions - FAMILY.CODE
SECTION 300-310
300. Marriage is a personal relation arising out of a civil
contract between a man and a woman, to which the consent of the
parties capable of making that contract is necessary. Consent alone
does not constitute marriage. Consent must be followed by the
issuance of a license and solemnization as authorized by this
division, except as provided by Section 425 and Part 4 (commencing
with Section 500).
300. (a) Marriage is a personal relation arising out of a civil
contract between a man and a woman, to which the consent of the
parties capable of making that contract is necessary. Consent alone
does not constitute marriage. Consent must be followed by the
issuance of a license and solemnization as authorized by this
division, except as provided by Section 425 and Part 4 (commencing
with Section 500).
(b) For purposes of this part, the document issued by the county
clerk is a marriage license until it is registered with the county
recorder, at which time the license becomes a marriage certificate.
301. An unmarried male of the age of 18 years or older, and an
unmarried female of the age of 18 years or older, and not otherwise
disqualified, are capable of consenting to and consummating marriage.
302. An unmarried male or female under the age of 18 years is
capable of consenting to and consummating marriage if each of the
following documents is filed with the county clerk issuing the
marriage license:
(a) The written consent of the parents of each underage person, or
of one of the parents or the guardian of each underage person.
(b) A court order granting permission to the underage person to
marry, obtained on the showing the court requires.
302. (a) An unmarried male or female under the age of 18 years is
capable of consenting to and consummating marriage upon obtaining a
court order granting permission to the underage person or persons to
marry.
(b) The court order and written consent of the parents of each
underage person, or of one of the parents or the guardian of each
underage person shall be filed with the clerk of the court, and a
certified copy of the order shall be presented to the county clerk at
the time the marriage license is issued.
303. If it appears to the satisfaction of the court by application
of a minor that the minor requires a written consent to marry and
that the minor has no parent or has no parent capable of consenting,
the court may make an order consenting to the issuance of a marriage
license and granting permission to the minor to marry. The order
shall be filed with the county clerk at the time the license is
issued.
303. If it appears to the satisfaction of the court by application
of a minor that the minor requires a written consent to marry and
that the minor has no parent or has no parent capable of consenting,
the court may make an order consenting to the issuance of a marriage
license and granting permission to the minor to marry. The order
shall be filed with the clerk of the court and a certified copy of
the order shall be presented to the county clerk at the time the
marriage license is issued.
304. As part of the court order granting permission to marry under
Section 302 or 303, the court shall require the parties to the
prospective marriage of a minor to participate in premarital
counseling concerning social, economic, and personal responsibilities
incident to marriage, if the court considers the counseling to be
necessary. The parties shall not be required, without their consent,
to confer with counselors provided by religious organizations of any
denomination. In determining whether to order the parties to
participate in the premarital counseling, the court shall consider,
among other factors, the ability of the parties to pay for the
counseling. The court may impose a reasonable fee to cover the cost
of any premarital counseling provided by the county. The fees shall
be used exclusively to cover the cost of the counseling services
authorized by this section.
305. Consent to and solemnization of marriage may be proved under
the same general rules of evidence as facts are proved in other
cases.
306. Except as provided in Section 307, a marriage shall be
licensed, solemnized, and authenticated, and the certificate of
registry of marriage shall be returned as provided in this part.
Noncompliance with this part by a nonparty to the marriage does not
invalidate the marriage.
306. Except as provided in Section 307, a marriage shall be
licensed, solemnized, and authenticated, and the authenticated
marriage license shall be returned to the county recorder of the
county where the marriage license was issued, as provided in this
part. Noncompliance with this part by a nonparty to the marriage does
not invalidate the marriage.
307. This division, so far as it relates to the solemnizing of
marriage, is not applicable to members of a particular religious
society or denomination not having clergy for the purpose of
solemnizing marriage or entering the marriage relation, if all of the
following requirements are met:
(a) The parties to the marriage make, sign, and endorse on or
attach to the license a statement, in the form prescribed by the
State Department of Health Services, showing all of the following:
(1) The fact, time, and place of entering into the marriage.
(2) The signatures and places of residence of two witnesses to the
ceremony.
(3) The religious society or denomination of the parties to the
marriage, and that the marriage was entered into in accordance with
the rules and customs of that religious society or denomination. The
statement of the parties to the marriage that the marriage was
entered into in accordance with the rules and customs of the
religious society or denomination is conclusively presumed to be
true.
(b) The License and Certificate of Declaration of Marriage,
endorsed pursuant to subdivision (a), is returned to the county
recorder of the county in which the license was issued within 30 days
after the ceremony.
307. This division, so far as it relates to the solemnizing of
marriage, is not applicable to members of a particular religious
society or denomination not having clergy for the purpose of
solemnizing marriage or entering the marriage relation, if all of the
following requirements are met:
(a) The parties to the marriage sign and endorse on the form
prescribed by the State Department of Health Services, showing all of
the following:
(1) The fact, time, and place of entering into the marriage.
(2) The printed names, signatures, and mailing addresses of two
witnesses to the ceremony.
(3) The religious society or denomination of the parties to the
marriage, and that the marriage was entered into in accordance with
the rules and customs of that religious society or denomination. The
statement of the parties to the marriage that the marriage was
entered into in accordance with the rules and customs of the
religious society or denomination is conclusively presumed to be
true.
(b) The License and Certificate of Non-Clergy Marriage, endorsed
pursuant to subdivision (a), is returned to the county recorder of
the county in which the license was issued within 10 days after the
ceremony.
308. A marriage contracted outside this state that would be valid
by the laws of the jurisdiction in which the marriage was contracted
is valid in this state.
308.5. Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or
recognized in California.
309. If either party to a marriage denies the marriage, or refuses
to join in a declaration of the marriage, the other party may
proceed, by action, to have the validity of the marriage determined
and declared.
309. If either party to a marriage denies the marriage, or refuses
to join in a declaration of the marriage, the other party may
proceed, by action pursuant to Section 103450 of the Health and
Safety Code, to have the validity of the marriage determined and
declared.
310. Marriage is dissolved only by one of the following:
(a) The death of one of the parties.
(b) A judgment of dissolution of marriage.
(c) A judgment of nullity of marriage.
I believe the female should be at 16
and her mother or farther has to sign
custody of her over to the boyfriend
the boyfriend has to be 18 or older .
He can sign for her to marry him .
This happened in Pa .lotion cream
All the parents have to consent.In california how is it possible for a 17 and a 14 year old to get married what are the rules and regulations?
Not possible
not possible anywhere in the US.
No way for these two to get married in California. Only in certain states can anyone below 18 get married. Do not listen to the people saying you need both parents' consent--that may be true in other states but not California.
not legal
it takes the concent of both parents and whoever this 17 yr old is just let you know will be 18 and that is called against the law and her parents can turn you in wait if it is real it is worth waiting for
What is the minimum age a man or woman may marry?
You must be 18 years old or older to marry without parental consent. A birth certificate may be necessary to show proof of age.
What if one or both of us is younger than 18?
If either partner is under 18, one parent or legal guardian must be present. If a parent can not be present, due to death, separation, divorce or other circumstances, proper evidence must be presented for verification. You will need a certified copy of your birth certificate. The couple must schedule an appointment with a counselor and then appear before a superior court judge.
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Here is California law on the subject of who may marry and the age restrictions - FAMILY.CODE
SECTION 300-310
300. Marriage is a personal relation arising out of a civil
contract between a man and a woman, to which the consent of the
parties capable of making that contract is necessary. Consent alone
does not constitute marriage. Consent must be followed by the
issuance of a license and solemnization as authorized by this
division, except as provided by Section 425 and Part 4 (commencing
with Section 500).
300. (a) Marriage is a personal relation arising out of a civil
contract between a man and a woman, to which the consent of the
parties capable of making that contract is necessary. Consent alone
does not constitute marriage. Consent must be followed by the
issuance of a license and solemnization as authorized by this
division, except as provided by Section 425 and Part 4 (commencing
with Section 500).
(b) For purposes of this part, the document issued by the county
clerk is a marriage license until it is registered with the county
recorder, at which time the license becomes a marriage certificate.
301. An unmarried male of the age of 18 years or older, and an
unmarried female of the age of 18 years or older, and not otherwise
disqualified, are capable of consenting to and consummating marriage.
302. An unmarried male or female under the age of 18 years is
capable of consenting to and consummating marriage if each of the
following documents is filed with the county clerk issuing the
marriage license:
(a) The written consent of the parents of each underage person, or
of one of the parents or the guardian of each underage person.
(b) A court order granting permission to the underage person to
marry, obtained on the showing the court requires.
302. (a) An unmarried male or female under the age of 18 years is
capable of consenting to and consummating marriage upon obtaining a
court order granting permission to the underage person or persons to
marry.
(b) The court order and written consent of the parents of each
underage person, or of one of the parents or the guardian of each
underage person shall be filed with the clerk of the court, and a
certified copy of the order shall be presented to the county clerk at
the time the marriage license is issued.
303. If it appears to the satisfaction of the court by application
of a minor that the minor requires a written consent to marry and
that the minor has no parent or has no parent capable of consenting,
the court may make an order consenting to the issuance of a marriage
license and granting permission to the minor to marry. The order
shall be filed with the county clerk at the time the license is
issued.
303. If it appears to the satisfaction of the court by application
of a minor that the minor requires a written consent to marry and
that the minor has no parent or has no parent capable of consenting,
the court may make an order consenting to the issuance of a marriage
license and granting permission to the minor to marry. The order
shall be filed with the clerk of the court and a certified copy of
the order shall be presented to the county clerk at the time the
marriage license is issued.
304. As part of the court order granting permission to marry under
Section 302 or 303, the court shall require the parties to the
prospective marriage of a minor to participate in premarital
counseling concerning social, economic, and personal responsibilities
incident to marriage, if the court considers the counseling to be
necessary. The parties shall not be required, without their consent,
to confer with counselors provided by religious organizations of any
denomination. In determining whether to order the parties to
participate in the premarital counseling, the court shall consider,
among other factors, the ability of the parties to pay for the
counseling. The court may impose a reasonable fee to cover the cost
of any premarital counseling provided by the county. The fees shall
be used exclusively to cover the cost of the counseling services
authorized by this section.
305. Consent to and solemnization of marriage may be proved under
the same general rules of evidence as facts are proved in other
cases.
306. Except as provided in Section 307, a marriage shall be
licensed, solemnized, and authenticated, and the certificate of
registry of marriage shall be returned as provided in this part.
Noncompliance with this part by a nonparty to the marriage does not
invalidate the marriage.
306. Except as provided in Section 307, a marriage shall be
licensed, solemnized, and authenticated, and the authenticated
marriage license shall be returned to the county recorder of the
county where the marriage license was issued, as provided in this
part. Noncompliance with this part by a nonparty to the marriage does
not invalidate the marriage.
307. This division, so far as it relates to the solemnizing of
marriage, is not applicable to members of a particular religious
society or denomination not having clergy for the purpose of
solemnizing marriage or entering the marriage relation, if all of the
following requirements are met:
(a) The parties to the marriage make, sign, and endorse on or
attach to the license a statement, in the form prescribed by the
State Department of Health Services, showing all of the following:
(1) The fact, time, and place of entering into the marriage.
(2) The signatures and places of residence of two witnesses to the
ceremony.
(3) The religious society or denomination of the parties to the
marriage, and that the marriage was entered into in accordance with
the rules and customs of that religious society or denomination. The
statement of the parties to the marriage that the marriage was
entered into in accordance with the rules and customs of the
religious society or denomination is conclusively presumed to be
true.
(b) The License and Certificate of Declaration of Marriage,
endorsed pursuant to subdivision (a), is returned to the county
recorder of the county in which the license was issued within 30 days
after the ceremony.
307. This division, so far as it relates to the solemnizing of
marriage, is not applicable to members of a particular religious
society or denomination not having clergy for the purpose of
solemnizing marriage or entering the marriage relation, if all of the
following requirements are met:
(a) The parties to the marriage sign and endorse on the form
prescribed by the State Department of Health Services, showing all of
the following:
(1) The fact, time, and place of entering into the marriage.
(2) The printed names, signatures, and mailing addresses of two
witnesses to the ceremony.
(3) The religious society or denomination of the parties to the
marriage, and that the marriage was entered into in accordance with
the rules and customs of that religious society or denomination. The
statement of the parties to the marriage that the marriage was
entered into in accordance with the rules and customs of the
religious society or denomination is conclusively presumed to be
true.
(b) The License and Certificate of Non-Clergy Marriage, endorsed
pursuant to subdivision (a), is returned to the county recorder of
the county in which the license was issued within 10 days after the
ceremony.
308. A marriage contracted outside this state that would be valid
by the laws of the jurisdiction in which the marriage was contracted
is valid in this state.
308.5. Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or
recognized in California.
309. If either party to a marriage denies the marriage, or refuses
to join in a declaration of the marriage, the other party may
proceed, by action, to have the validity of the marriage determined
and declared.
309. If either party to a marriage denies the marriage, or refuses
to join in a declaration of the marriage, the other party may
proceed, by action pursuant to Section 103450 of the Health and
Safety Code, to have the validity of the marriage determined and
declared.
310. Marriage is dissolved only by one of the following:
(a) The death of one of the parties.
(b) A judgment of dissolution of marriage.
(c) A judgment of nullity of marriage.
I believe the female should be at 16
and her mother or farther has to sign
custody of her over to the boyfriend
the boyfriend has to be 18 or older .
He can sign for her to marry him .
This happened in Pa .
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