why not, find a pushover man that you can boss aroundDo I have a chance of ever being married?
Well first of all size wont matter if you would let the right one in. It sounds like you seriously have to change a few things within your self and find out what is the real reason you are mean to men and scare them away is it because you are scared of getting hurt? If you don't change and do some soul searching then you will be all alone and do you seriously want that? Well work would pro bally be you best bet but you must change yourself mentally spice up you personality. Every time you think of being mean to a man laugh or think of something extremely funny to break those mean thoughts you want to say, or take a deep breathe and count to ten before talking. It sounds as if you are scared of rejection and that might be why you are so mean. It might take time but if you would change the way you speak to them they might come around and trust me if a few men know you are looking for a relationship guys will help you find a man more then a women will help.
I have family members that have had the same discription and they married but they went through hell. If you know you have issues and traits that scare men away you have to options love you fro you and if you can not find a man that that does not mind a good fight then forget them option 2 search deep in yourself , find out why you are so violent and hateful and wowrk on that so some one wil be attracted to you Good Luck
Now this is a Tuff one .
Being big may not be a man killer , but treating people like crap will do it every time .
First , you must be gentile and kind to any prospects .
Men want to be nurtured and loved . They expect you to be civil
and somewhat ladylike with good manners .
No body cares about being around a mean or Tuff women .
Being rough will only run them away .
Try to be feminine and sensual . Men love soft , sensual ,
soft spoken , sensual women . Respect him and treat him well .
You may treat others poorly , be your personal relationship with your man should always be different , as though your happiness depended on it .
Men are all around you , everywhere . including good ones .
but , If they fear you , they will never approach you .
You have to show them your good side .
I don't think your size or weight has anything to do with your lack of a male companion, but your personality needs some work...from what you say. AND, what guy would want to be around a woman who physically threatens them? Dig deep my dear and make a resolution to soften yourself around the edges before looking for a guy!
Woah Girl, did you read your own question... and you wander why your single? If you intimdate men, how on earth do you expect to find some one, you have some serious self esteem issues, I am not a small gal, but I am strong, and I never felt I was intimdating, but I was independent and guys like that, But jees, slow down and think about yourself and your opinions.... then wonder why you are single.
At that size, your chances of attracting a man are slim. The mean disposition is not going to help.
I suggest playing for the other team or taking care of some (no pun intended) BIG problems.
No, by the sounds of it you are a very scary woman with anger issues. Maybe you should try to be a little less imposing. Or you could marry a longshoreman, I hear they are tough.
Hmmm. You have a very bad disposition and temper and like to physically threaten people. I'd be more worried about your chances of going to jail if I were you.
Find a good therapist first.
That anger thing is REALLY ugly to men - forget the fact that you're taller and bigger than many men. It's the anger issues that will send 'em packing.
Maybe a Bulgarian weightlifter could sort you out
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