Why do youbg couples get married, have a couple kids and divorce?

I like this guy that is in this situation. He said he wanted to marry me, but I wnat to know the reason why their divorcing. They were together 3 yrs. Sh e suposedly left him because she didnt want to be married. But why did she have 2 kids and get married in the beginning? Please answer!!!!!Why do youbg couples get married, have a couple kids and divorce?
She was young and didn't know what she wanted.





Everybody in their teens and early twenties is gonna meet somebody that they're sure they want to spend the rest of their lives with... and it rarely works out.





People simply shouldn't get married so young.Why do youbg couples get married, have a couple kids and divorce?
28 and see this all the time. Ppl marry for the wrong reason and they know it. Most of the time they r more attracted to the idea of marriage but find its not all that's its cracked up to be once in it. Envolving kids comes from having sex with no protection or to save the marriage. Eventually it ends and makes the whole idea of marriage look kinda retarded to ppl like my boyfriend and I.


Its just lame. Even from a business perspective. When they seperate everything is seperated and that sucks, less money when income is not combined. As I'm writing this I got a new reason. Ppl get married and don't even know how to keep their word on little daily issues. Committment is something that is taught and practiced not just something u jump into.


That's all I got.


Detroit
Most people really don't realize what ';I do'; truly means. Today's judicial system makes it too convenient to back out of what is supposed to be a lifelong commitment. She had fairy tale hopes entering the marriage. She was hoping it was going to be something like you see in the movies. What she found out was marriage isn't always fun, and what truly defined the character of the couple is the ability to make it through the times that aren't so great.
because they are young and in love. they get really excited to be grown-up and get married and have that picture perfect family...but don't realize the difficulty and busyness of having a family and a real life including other people. It may seem great in the beginning and fun to be married and have kids. But then the couple realizes that they really can't work it out because they jumped into the marriage too quickly. But now they're stuck! So, they get divorced.
i think its a mental thing with some people;they may be very happy when they are not married but they see a marriage as something intimidating in their mind so they think they have to change and make themselves better because of the marriage.





The reason a lot of people have kids before they divorce is because they see a child as something they can put their attention on and maybe spend more time with each other and work round any problems they may have through the child
This is a fairly simple answer. People settle. They marry the wrong partner. They focus on the good qualitites and ignore the bad ones... until they are married and find they can no longer ignore those bad and annoying qualities. And they only get worse as time goes by. Now that I am married to my one and only soul mate, I can say that people should not marry unless there is absolutely NOTHING they would want to change about the person they are going to marry. Acceptance and respect are the key to a good and long marriage.
There are a lot of people in the world who don't really think things through. They just rush into commitments and relationships without worrying about consequences. They were probably just 2 kids who thought that they ';loved'; each other when they don't even know what love is. If I were you, I'd stay away from him. Chances are that the same thing will happen to you that happened to her. He must not think very much to be wanting to marry someone else in the middle of a different marriage.
She is the only one that can answer that question. I have no idea why she left him unless I knew her situation. Young people marry to be more grown up but once they say I do and live with one another they have no clue on how it works. Yes they play house for awhile and then bam the newness wears off and then they have no idea on how to make it work because they are still so immature.
because in the beginning, there is enough excitement and reasons to have sex. later, reality sets in and one or both people is faced with challenges that they aren't willing or able to deal with, so they bail out.





in some cases, problems could be avoided if the woman would just put out occasionally while they work on the issues, instead of freezing up until life is perfect, which will never happen, and meanwhile the man will get ornery.
Because people don't want to put forth the time and energy to make a relationship work. Life is full of ups and downs and it's a bit frightening how, when things get difficult, people decide to run. They don't accept responsibility for their choices and figure it's easier to scrap it all and just start with someone else. Someone better. Then, problems crop up in that relationship so they move on to another. Never once stopping to think they may have ownership in it. I guarantee you -- this marriage isn't ending just because of her.
People divorce for different reasons. You need to ask him directly. Strangers on the internet cannot tell you about the specifics of some random person's marriage.
Because there getting married to young.
people these days take marriage for granted


LEGALIZE GAY MARRIAGE!!!
People are crazy...
because humans are stupid...of course